Contemplating leaving

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  1. 80190

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    I’ve just started contemplating leaving s.f cause I’m now banned from lpsg for spam, don’t know how, but ok, plus, nobody wanted me to be a moderator in the first place cause they didn’t like how I operated, and since I was receiving negativity in my now deleted thread, what’s the point of sticking around
     
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    I hate to see this go this far. The MOD thing didn't work out, that happens in life. All of us will click with others here in some way and have other members that will never appreciate us.

    I suggest a little mental break away then if you like pop back jump in.a few threads start anew.
     
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    i hate to see you do that Wolfprincess.
     
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    So I have no vested interest in this one way or another. But just an observer.

    So yesterday you asked for Honest Opinions about your performance as a moderator. That didn't come out as a love fest for you. And now that post has been removed by yourself or another mod? Not sure. I was not affected one way or another by the cited short comings but seeing those and your reactions to people not gushing how great you are doing showed that you really didn't want Honest Opinions, rather you wanted warm and fuzzies.
    Today, you follow up with Contemplating Leaving. This to me seems like round 2 of the pity party. If you aren't happy here, logging out is simple. Its one click of the button. But make a decision, stick to it, and stop whining.
     
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    First of all, nobody didn't not want you to be a moderator. In fact, several people congratulated you when you became one.
    Secondly, you asked for opinions in that now deleted thread.....not only just positive opinions. You don't get to choose attitudes people have toward you (even though your actions shape them).
    You not being a mod anymore isn't because people had negative opinions about you, it because of your actions while being a mod.
    That's the harshness.
    Now the bright outlook, you don't have mod responsibilities hanging over you now. Your'e free to enjoy the site like everyone else. You can turn any negative opinions around by being a good site member.
    It's all up to you. You don't have to leave if you don't want to.
    Good luck to you on whatever decision you make.

    P.s.- who gives a shit about the sister site...you have this one if you want to stay shrug.gif
     
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    Don't coddle her by spoon-feeding her any amount of the validation she's been trying to bait out of everyone. She's an adult. If she can't handle not being the most popular person on the site and just being a "regular member like the rest of us", that's her problem. Not ours.
     
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    Meh, I believe in second chances because I may need one one day. But I understand how you feel based off your interactions with the OP. I've had my own issues with a very biased ex-mod here. Iconcheers.gif
     
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    Just so you know. She was a member of LPSG and created a thread about having her Mod title taken away from her. Then blaming a Mod for losing her position. Get the facts before you start bashing the brother site!
    She also said she was accused of throwing a member under the bus. Accused? She admittedly said and pointed her finger calling out GH057 as the blame and then created said thread in LPSG looking for pity!
    She never participated over yonder so? So why the fuck would anyone in LPSG give a fuck about her and her losing her position as hardly anyone knows about SF.

    Like said above. Round 2 of the poor me the Mod stripped victim of SF.

    I learned years ago that when someone post that they're leaving a site. It's just a ploy to see who cares and to see how much you'll be missed! PityParty101
     
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    Another thread that will appear and disappear?:eyes:

    Quantum tunneling?:idea:
     
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    I might agree normally ;)

    But multiple people have complained about her during her time as a mod. And instead of acknowledging the complaints and using them to become a better mod, she blew it all off until it was too late.
     
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    I don't give two shits about the sister site...certainly not enough to bash it. Jesus, some of you members from there act like it's the best thing going. Seems like y'all would stay there if it was.
    I get that you're biased against the OP...but be the bigger person. Like I've already stated, I've been a victim of bias from an ex mod....4 bans worth and a thread ban to boot...all within about a month and a half....so you don't have a monopoly on it.

    Let her stay if she wants. And if she's as bad a poster as she was a mod, the ensuing shitshow will be hilarious to watch.
     
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    If your going to leave leave simple as no need for this thread when you could have done so quietly
     
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    Have no clue what's going on with you or your situation as a mod and others. Nor do I really care.
    Why not take some time off from this site and figure out what to do?
    Either way good luck.
     
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    Oh I never said she should leave but give me a fucking break with the Poor Poor ME bit and Woman up to her mistakes. All I said is she had NO reason at all to go posting in LPSG about her ModShit(p) being taken away from here like it wasn't her fault. AGAIN Blaming another Mod for the wrong doing. And then acting like she has no idea as to what we we're talking about. Thrown under the bus innocent act.
    IF she wants to stay? the stay! but end the fucking PityPoorMe bit!
     
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    Best wishes! Bye!
     
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    EXACTLY!
     
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    You're not telling me anything I don't already know. I read the OP. I read, and was in, the deleted thread....and saw all the other shit leading up to it.
    But give ME a break. All this "quit the poor me" shit....Pssssh, threads like these get attention because everyone loves a train wreck. Deep down inside, lots of people like threads like this, they like the drama, the entertainment. Hell, I'll include myself in that by saying it's like a soap opera and I wanna see what happens next.
    And it's definitely not unique to this site.
    She stays, she goes, I don't really care in the end.
    But damn brother, ease up on the exclamation points. Don't stroke out over an internet thread that, maybe 20 people will see....it would be a hell of a way to go :joy:
     
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    Exclamation points are all I got! As I'm out of Viagra Man! Help a brutha out?

    Funny You mention me stroking out as I'm 96.7% AFib ROFL.... Xeralto is my friend! Har!
     
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    Why make a big deal out of staying or leaving? You aren't a mod anymore, so what? You did things that Rob felt warranted removal, life goes on. This is just another public cry for validation and again, you aren't going to get it. If you want to go, go. If you want to stay, stop posting out cries, get over your brief time as a mod, accept your issues and move on as a member.
     
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    tissues and sarcasm would be greatly appreciated
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