Considering deleting my account

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  1. Zman42

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    Considering deleting my account, I came here in hopes of building my confidence and having some sexy fun with some ladies, but not many people seem interested. I will have to think it over. Feeling unsure about what to do. Maybe I'm doing something wrong.
     
  2. Crack Filler

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    Its like most things....You get out of it what you put into it. Most cases a female posts a picture and she'll get many comments,where as if a male does it may or may not get comments.

    Maybe post in some of the game threads and comment pictures. If you're not involved you tend to become invisible.
     
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  3. Zman42

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    I drop comments all the time, I have tried a couple games maybe I'll try some more
     
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    You've been here for three years and have a post count of just over fifty. I agree that you get back what you put into this site. If you expect to post photos of your dick and have women flock, it won't happen. Look at the gallery, see how many other dicks are posted every. single. day.

    Try giving more input, try talking to women for more purpose than getting their photos or having them look at yours. There are many of us here, including myself who are friends with a lot of the members and chat regularly because of that built friendship.

    If you want more, do more. Confidence doesn't come from posting photos and sitting back for three years hoping folks will like you.
     
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    I'm gay, and I've had "sexy fun" with ladies. This isn't a sausage factory. Women are the focus, not men. There are breathtaking men here whose pics have gotten 5 or fewer likes. It's just the way it is. Games, Lounge, and answering non-controversial Q&A are all good ways of getting to know people and getting your name out there.
     
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    I kid I kid :laughing: I just like that gif lol

    As @Mittimer pointed out, put in more effort outside of just having "sexy fun with the ladies".
    Or, instead of deleting, just take a site break. Get away from it for a bit...then you may find yourself ready to jump back in recharged.
    But, if your mind is still stuck on sexy fun only...


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    :joy::joy:
     
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    What do you mean by “sexy fun”? Playing games? Sexting? Exchanging pics?
     
  8. Zman42

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    Sexting, exchange pics that kind of stuff
     
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    I will certainly take your advice, your right I was here for three years and didn't post that much cause I was kind of unsure at first but within the last couple of weeks I decided to get more active and am kinda new to it.
     
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    I'm an out right Adonis :) and more times then not go unnoticed. Just have fun posting,playing games and enjoying the many beautiful woman here.
     
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    Thank you for the much needed advice
     
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    Thank you all for the kind words and much needed advice, I was certainly feeling lost with what to do.
     
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