Hello, im new here so forgive me if this is posted in the wrong place. ive been seeing this new girl and the other day we had sex for the first time. I used Durex Extra safe condoms but both times we had sex i didnt come! with these condoms it was like i couldnt feel very much. in previous relationships i havent had to use a condom so im not very used to this... its nothing to do with the girl because we are both of about the same sexual level, and its not like shes got a bucket! Before she came around though i had a wank just out of fear of comeing to early... what do you think about this? should i have left myself before she came around or should i use different condoms? Thanks!