Hi, I'm new to this forum.. just found it a few mins ago.. but I'm glad. Because I have no one else to speak with about this subject. I've been with my current BF for 1.8 years. Some time back he admitted to me that he wouldn't mind if I had sex with someone else. That the thought actually turned him on. At the time I looked at is as tho maybe he didn't really care about me as much as he said. And it upset me a bit. Last week the topic came up again. I asked him if he really meant it. If he was turned on by the idea of me being with someone else. He said "Oh yes". I asked if it was a way for him to have permission to be with another girl, because this is something I'm not comfortable with. He said no. That it was purely a sexual turn on to think about me being with another man. And that he'd really like it if I did.. Then afterward call and fill him in on the entire encounter. Smells, feelings, positions, everything. Every little detail. We made an agreement, defined the rules, and I've been flirting with a man I know so it looks as tho it might actually happen. Thing is, all of this is evolving really fast. Shortly after making the agreement, I thought about him watching instead of just getting the play-by-play. I got extremely turned on thinking about it. So I asked for his thoughts. He was immediately turned on, and said he'd VERY much like it if I could arrange for him to watch. When I think about how turned on he says he'll get watching, it turns me on that much more. Am I alone or are other women as turned on by the thought of their significant other watching them with someone else? Other things have begun to creep into my mind, but I'll save those for later.