So, I thought I might want to get some advice from the SF masses, as you guys always give great advice. My problem is simple: In my relationship, I've become too dependent on my partner. I have no problem with becoming more independent, but my fiance does not want me to do certain things, and wants me to consult him on issues concerning me. I don't have a problem with this, but he often complains that I am too dependent on him. I thought I was only doing what he wanted in our relationship, but aparently, I'm doing something wrong. I mean, if I want to go for a walk at night, I cannot go alone, because it's too 'dangerous'. If I don't tell him that I'm going somewhere, he gets upset because he says that he worries about me. That's just an example, but it is a real-life one. I just don't know what to do. If I pull away, he complains. If I become too dependent, he complains. I'm a flexible person, but I don't know what I should do. We're engaged, and he is a wonderful guy. I feel that this is a relatively small problem in the scheme of things, and there is nothing I wouldn't do to work this out. I do suspect that one thing that I will be advised to do is talk to my fiance. Not all of the problem lies with me, I understand, but I just wanted to see what others would have to say. Any advice?