Is asking for sex a turnoff to woman? I sometimes get bored and just be watching the game and might come at my woman wanting sex or she on her time and i ask for Oral and she just takes it so personal. The other day i made a comment about oral sex not asking for it and she just blew up at me saying she aint going to never do it again. And then she accused me of being addicted to it when she only have done it 3 or 4 times not a exact count and we've been together for 3 months now. Im just saying sometimes as men we want sex and sometimes we want to just sit back and get Oral..