I've been away from the site for a while but while away I have a new OH, he and I have an ok sex life, a lot tamer than what I'm used to but if it is to be that then it's fine by me. He is quite a sensitive chap and I don't want to do or say something that would embarrass or hurt him but I would like to know if he would be more adventurous with sex. Now I don't know if he is holding back because he thinks that's what I want or he just hasn't experienced more variety in his past sex life. How would I approach this with him without embarrassing him or making him feel that he is inadequate? Like I said at the beginning if it was to come to it I would be fine with it as it is as the sex isn't the be all and end all. Am I in the right to bring it up at all?