Part 1 My wife and I have tried anal sex before... The first time was in our fist year of marriage. She said when she did the enema before hand, she did not like how it made her stomach feel. But she was still willing to do it again. We would discuss it from time to time, but we did not try it again until years later...and that was the last time. The last time we tried it, I only put the head of my penis inside her. She was relaxed so it didn't hurt. I can't recall if she did an enema before hand or not. Knowing us, probably. But anyway, later that night, she got a REALLY bad stomach ache. We don't know that it was caused by the anal or not, but we have been reluctant to try again. Does anyone know if anal can cause a...blockage, or constapation, or something? Part 2 Also... should we maybe try anal plugs? Would it be better to start with an anal plug? I have been considering picking up some anal plugs for her to try. I see them being sold on ebay. I figure that is the cheapest place to get them. We dont want to spend a lot on them. Are there any that would be recommended? Or will anything do? For now I'll probably just use my finger on her and see how that goes. Maybe that would be a good way to work up to anal sex?