Hello, I thought I'd share a little about myself before I start bombarding you with questions. I'm a very sexual person with a very liberated attitude towards sex. I've been married nearly 12 years to a slightly older woman. She's a wonderful person, but very timid and sexually repressed. For the past several years, our sexlife has gone downhill. We're both commited to working on it, but I could use some help. I've come seeking wisdom. I hope to find it here.