I'm going to try to make this story as short as possible, if I left any details out - Feel free to ask me . I'm in college, and there's this girl at school, she's in her mid 20's and I'm in my early 20's...When I first saw her I thought she was really pretty, smart, pleasant to be around, etc. I keep a journal, so naturally I wrote about her. We would have these moments where we would look at each other, awkward silence, and we would both laugh. I learned she was engaged, and her boyfriend doesn't live in the area, she moved out to California for school and he's in the East coast. We have class together and a classmate is married, and she's our age. I sincerely said to the girl that I like, "It's cool to care about someone, and be married, have that connection and have someone there for you." Since she's engaged, I was also implying that she's fortunate to always have someone there for her. She didn't agree with me. She gave me the impression that she would rather be single. Obviously there's pro's and con's for marriage/being engaged... She was running for treasurer for a club that we're in and I didn't vote for her. I voted for a friend I have known longer than her. She exclaimed that I didn't really know her or notice her at all. Which is the opposite! I always noticed her, wrote about her, wanted to get to know her. Since she has a fiance, I would never try to get in between them... I did want to tell her about my journal though, and that I did write about her. Her fiance and her have now broken up...I'm assuming they'll get back together, I'm not sure. I think they have been going out/engaged for a few years or so. I want to tell her about my journal, that's it. I probably wouldn't tell her the contents of her entry(s), but I want her to know that I did notice her and I love being around her. I would really like to date her, but there is her fiance, and now that they aren't together, it's still too soon... I don't want to regret not telling her about my journal, but I don't want things to be uncomfortable between her ex-fiance, or between her and I... I can't believe they broke up - shit happens though. What should I do?