Hey everyone, I'm new here and relatively new to the whole masturbation/sexual relationship thing. And I'm also going to try to avoid making an ass of myself For years I thought I was completely impotent as I could not get myself off no matter how hard I tried. Now I can, but it's very difficult and have found myself to be very picky as to what I can get off to. I got off the first time when I was 18 ( :-O ) and it came with A LOT of coaxing. Now, I can only get off to "just right" lesbian porn (which is in short supply when you're on a budget) and can not just do it mentally. Also I have just gotten into my first sexual relationship and I have a beautiful amazing girlfriend who does all sorts of cool stuff, and she cant help me to orgasm either. I have a pretty bad case of ADD, and I know I'm not the only person who has it, does anyone else with it have this problem? Does anyone know how to over come it? Masturbation techniques anyone? I feel like I'm letting my sweetie down every time I get her off but she can't return the favor to me.