Your sf persona vs your real life persona

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  1. Ryan4chat

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    Besides this being a very comfortable site to enjoy an share some of my naughty thoughts an interests, I’m not really any different if you knew me in the real world. I’ve shared my affinity for music, (writing, recording & playing), guitars, brewing an beer in general, cars, plus a few other hobbies.
    I’m very open with how much I really love the female body & physique an all the lovely sizes, shapes, curves that are shared here. truly delicious variety of stunning ladies an all of you are so sexy in your own way.

    I’m conservative in some areas if I’m opening up to admitting too much in certain threads, but I try to be more outgoing rather than a quiet guy in the corner. I try an be respectful an share with those who also want to share or have like interests.

    An sometimes I’m just quiet due to my own struggles and/or mood. But I’m not one for putting on airs or trying to be some one I’m not. All the while trying to tweak the things I wish I was better at or more comfortable with.

    I’m probably able ( or am) to be more open with someone here, than in person when it comes down to some secrets we’d rarely tell anyone, but I don’t think that’s uncommon.
     
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    SF is a hidden side of me. It is an outlet for me. I suppose some would say that in real life I suppress this side of me.

    I need a lot more time with therapist to get to the answer on this one.

    I think that in some ways SF is my truer self and in real life I hide my lustier side.
     
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    I am the same person here as I am in the real world. I disclose nothing here that I wouldn't do so IRL. There's a few people here who know me very well personally, some I've dated, some I just have really good friendships with. They can attest that I am no different.
     
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    I believe I'm fairly similar in person and in real life, though I'd say I'm a little more open here. That applies to the internet in general for me. When I was younger, I would say my internet vs. IRL personas were drastically different. My online persona hasn't changed much at all, but I've grown significantly more comfortable talking to people and socializing overall over time IRL. I'm definitely a nerd and a smartass in both. :p
     
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    About the same. Both here and outside of here, I’m not the Social Alpha who takes over the room, but I appreciate what they bring to a group environment. I tend to pick my spots.
     
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    I am pretty much exactly the same online and real life. I cant think of anything I do differently here vs there.
     
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    I apologize for being skeptical, but for everyone who says they are the same, can you share what you do for a living? I've just never met anyone else in real life who talks about sharing nude photos online or even talks about sex the way we do here. I know that some of you have a lifestyle that includes sex, but in my experience, the working world doesn't doesn't accept this kind of openness.
     
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    I think when most people say they are exactly the same its taken as a given that they still tailor their behaviour / conversation to the surroundings. I am generally an open, honest confident guy and tend to look for the humour in every situation and usually use humour as a defence mechanism in challenging situations. Ergo my persona is the same whether online, offline, at work, at home etc. The only thing that changes is who I choose to share what with. Even here there's very little I will share with some and others who i know a little better i share a lot about my personal life. But again the same can be said about what I choose to share with people offline too. Some know alot about my sex life and we talk openly about sex, others know very little.

    Tailoring your conversation and choosing what to share with people you trust doesn't necessarily mean you have to have more than one persona.
     
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    This is the only place I talk about sex.I may watch a amateur blow job porn from time to time but not to often.I guess you could say I was a male slut I wanted to fuck every female I saw but I found that to be wrong an now I try to treat women better. So you would not know my last or that I get my fix on here.
     
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    my personality is different on sex sites then in real life,
    I choice not to show off on sex sites on the internet and some people call me fake because of it and that's OK with me I don't need the approval from strangers here or anywhere else,and to me it's kind of flattering that they think I'm too good to be true.a lot of other people don't want to show off on a internet sex site and IMO there is nothing in the world wrong with that,if you want to see pictures of me get off sex sites and go to other places on the internet and you will see lots of them.(facebook is one of them)
    In real life I do like to show off a lot and am very open and friendly with everyone,
    most people here and other sites are very friendly and nice,but just like anything else a few people try to ruin for everyone else
     
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    I'm probably a little more reserved in person, but I think anyone here would say the same. Just because we talk about sex openly here and not in real life doesn't mean our personas are any different. I act the same here as I do in person, I just don't discuss the same things.
     
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    More willing to show myself here then I would in any other way. Other then that im pretty much the same. shy.. new.. and curious haha
     
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    exactly. Time and place...
     
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    My dirty talk in the bedroom is about what it is here. But the anonymity her allows me a freedom to engage in flirtatious expression I wouldn't engage in real life except with my wife. And in real life I would restrain my sexual persona in public because that is a private expression.

    I mean.. would you fuck the woman above you? On here, a woman posts the first man that can says yes. Real life, it is yes if it' my wife. And she has to want to. Fortunately for me she often does.
     
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    Much the same, Im pretty “happy - go - lucky” but I have a deeper more serious side, that won’t make it here, as this is a fun place, right? And I don’t walk around naked in front of other people lol.