its a interesting question, one that isn't original. but i was thinking about it. straight guys tend to care about penis more than women do. i mean guys spend a lot of money on quick gimmicks and penis enhancement procedures/medication to try to get bigger penises. its a billion guys out there who are more concerned with their size then they are with their actual health. it's that important, even so far that they look at other guys penises from time to time comparing their own in terms of length and girth. i am not really a sexually active person honestly. i dont like dates, i like spur of the moment encounters, i like romance over lust often, and i want a ideal relationship where we are in love and faithful to each other. i have really strong morals as far as me having sex goes, as i need companionship etc before i can want to have sex with anyone. but even for me i tend to care about my penis size for some reason. the last girl i was talking to romantically she talked about my penis everyday almost. she was obsessed with it, the size, etc. this changed something in me, as i never encountered a girl who was like that before and she kinda ruined me, sometimes i wondered if she really liked my penis more than she liked me. i would say you dont love me you just love my penis as a joke. now i kinda have this thing about my junk. it gives me sort of proud feeling. its dumb. there are a lot of good qualities about me, both physically and mentally, but for some reason this has become a big thing on the list, no pun intended. do i have a problem? :lol why do you think us guys care sooooo much about our penis size? guys who are big want to show everyone they are and it doesn't have anything to do with levels of attractiveness. it's just strange and even i can't figure it out. on the other hand guys who are small or average, always show theres and want peoples opinion. lol male psychologically is all screwed up, i tell ya!