young built guy with sexual problem...any ideas?

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  1. tbirdguy08

    tbirdguy08 New Member

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    Hey what's goin on? I'm a young, built, masculine, gay male and I've got a problem and I wanted to hear some people's suggestions.

    Whenever I'm fuckin' a guy, I tend to have a hard time staying hard. I don't have a problem getting hard, but it goes away pretty quickly. Either for receiving oral or fucking, I go soft pretty quickly...it just doesn't feel as good as jackin' off. I fantasize about both, but then when I get to it, it just doesn't feel great. It's the same way with lube. When I am whackin off and add lube, I usually go soft in a minute or two because there isn't as much friction.

    So my question is: what can I do make getting blown and fucking get me off? It could be that I jack off too much (about twice a day) or that I'm circumcised, but not extremely so...so when I masturbate I can pull my skin up some and get some friction that way, but when I'm fucking the skin just stays in place. Is my problem that I'm jacking off like a guy who's uncut but that doesn't work when I'm having sex?

    Any ideas?
     
  2. fantasien

    fantasien New Member

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    How "built" are you? Cause you could be overbuilt. How frequently do you do the gym? Do you take any kind of stimulants? (example: drugs, poppers, alcohol or steroids?)
     
  3. Dreama

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    Could you cut down to masturbating once a day for awhile? I think that might be your problem-there is almost never that type of friction from a mouth (I'm not sure about anal penetration, though)...I'd at least try that to see if that helps.
     
  4. Joe

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    "Whenever I'm fuckin' a guy, I tend to have a hard time staying hard."

    Well I would too!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek :puke

    But your problem is most likely too much masturbation and too much friction when you do it. Stop for a week or two and then do it less often and less vigorously.