Hey what's goin on? I'm a young, built, masculine, gay male and I've got a problem and I wanted to hear some people's suggestions. Whenever I'm fuckin' a guy, I tend to have a hard time staying hard. I don't have a problem getting hard, but it goes away pretty quickly. Either for receiving oral or fucking, I go soft pretty quickly...it just doesn't feel as good as jackin' off. I fantasize about both, but then when I get to it, it just doesn't feel great. It's the same way with lube. When I am whackin off and add lube, I usually go soft in a minute or two because there isn't as much friction. So my question is: what can I do make getting blown and fucking get me off? It could be that I jack off too much (about twice a day) or that I'm circumcised, but not extremely so...so when I masturbate I can pull my skin up some and get some friction that way, but when I'm fucking the skin just stays in place. Is my problem that I'm jacking off like a guy who's uncut but that doesn't work when I'm having sex? Any ideas?