Ok, this is pretty bad. But I need some advice, I recently met this great girl, she has been active for a lot longer than I have been, she being 21 and I am only 18, in any case. Second date, we are back at my place, and things are starting to get better, however some things are getting worse. Well to keep it short, i couldn't perform. Erection got only up to around 60%, never up to the full way, and I lost it half way through, same thing happened next night as well. I am getting VERY frustrated over this, it is kind of emberrasing. Any advice? please don't tell me to relax, or to calm down, because you can't force relaxation onto someone, it just doesn't work. And don't tell me that is not a big deal, because to me it is. I mean I am still young, this shouldn't be happening, I just felt like raising my hands in the air, and screaming to god. like WWHHHHYYYY!?!??!? Why would the little head let me down like this?