Wrong move

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  1. wowzer

    wowzer New Member

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    Tonight me and my bf were planning a nice romantic night. We had dinner and ending up having sex. I wanted to make night extra special so i did everything to him that i know he really likes. Sex was incredible and exhausting for me especially because i bottomed, even letting him cum inside me. After we got through, like not even a few minutes after, he said he was going out with friends. Is it wrong for me to be pissed? I would have liked to spend more time. Its not first time hes done this either
     
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    That sounds like something I'd end up doing... So yeah, you probably have every right to be pissed.
     
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    I'd be plotting murder.
     
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    That's disrespectful. But alot of men don't get what -cuddle time- is. So explain to him how you are feeling. But in this situation its hard not to say he just wanted to get some good sex. :(
     
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    You need to speak to him about this so it doesn't become a wedge that drives the two of you apart. :)

    Cuddle time is important...but as L4Y says some guys just don't get it.
     
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    Even as a hardened homophobe I feel incensed by the callowness of his actions.
    Any lover worth his/her worth will give the partner loving time after a sensual enounter.
     
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    If he does not feel that it was a wrong move, he will not understand your anger. So tell him what you feel about it this time, but be nice to him. Being pissed may not improve his understanding. If he does it again, then you really have a reason to be pissed.
     
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    Nothing beats going out with the boys for a couple of beers after a good sex session. Its just so relaxing.