[Ask a Guy] Would you?

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  1. John W

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    After a discussion with the wife, we are of differing opinions here. I would like to take a poll from the single guys.

    You are a single guy and have an attraction to a married woman you know and harmlessly flirt with on occasion. One day, she approaches you and says that she had discussed with her husband, and he had given her a "pass" to be with you for an evening or even a weekend, would you?

    Yes
    No
    Hell No
     
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    thats a no brainer HELL YES :D
     
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    No strings attached sex? Hell yes.
     
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    She could be lying about what her husband said.

    <--- Not a guy, just opinionated.
     
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    That is a great point. Under this scenario, yes, the husband has given his okay.
     
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    A guy's point of view (attachments irrelevant); Fuck Yeah!
     
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    Hell no!
    Because the more time I would spend with her, the more attrackted to her I would become.
    Eventualy I would fall in love with her.
    And later it would hurt bad, because she is married and there is no chance she leaves him for me.
    So, I'll repeat : Hell No!
     
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    I would be all over her
     
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    Thank you for the responses thus far. I'll continue to see what the consensus is. My point as a guy is that most guys would say "yes" to the opportunity as described. We have toyed around with this idea, in fantasy, but my wife doesn't think it would be that easy. My wife's perspective is exactly what JackTask articulated, which is why I added "Hell No" to the question.

    I look forward to seeing any additional responses and why.

    Thanks again.
     
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    As much as I want to say Yes I'd probably lean towards No.
    Human nature dictates there's a good possibility of it turning into a clusterfuck (nod to jackTasak).
     
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    If everything is on the "up and up", sure.
     
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    I would have to hear it from him in front of her
     
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    So you're a single guy? All my illusions are shattered and my dreams scattered.

    Yes - providing he wasn't present and I might wonder about their motives.
     
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    Crap - I just outed myself
     
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    If i was single then "Yes".
     
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    Can't wait to see ginger's reaction to that :rolleyes:
     
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    I was willing to forgive the beard and wooden leg but this is one step to far........ :eek:
    Off to get counselling :(
     
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    The beard only comes out when it's a full moon!!!!
     
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    Btw - I didn't lie - I said I had a wood leg.... Just had 2