Would you men date a girl who did online camming?

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  1. Mandy87

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    HI there, so I am wanting some opinions about this : ) ...so how would u guys feel if ur GF did the web cam thing , where she gets paid to like chat, strip,dance etc for money? It would never get to meeting or talking on the phone etc...I do this personally and just thinking down the road when I find a guy, if it would be a bother? Thanks
     
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    It depends on teh guy, some are old fashioned, others may see that it's just a job and take solice it's all business and pays the bills, others might ask for a discount lol
     
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    lol yea it does depend on the guy and if he is open but I know im not doing this forever lol I am working on getting a real job /career
     
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    Answering the hypothetical if it was me and I wasn't married, it wouldn't be that much of a concern if it was something you had done in the past and didn't do any more. It would be more of a concern if you were still doing it but still had plenty of sex drive for me, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker (maybe some guys might be turned on by the exhibitionism, but that's not me)

    Where it could be a problem is if the boyfriend feels that you give more of yourself to strangers than you give to him.

    And you will have to expect it to be used against you in fights, even if it's just a thing of the past.

    So that's what you might expect in the future.
     
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    *like some goofy space cabet in fucking Flintstones* he's right y'know, it definately isn't like owrking a 7/11 or even at a strip club
     
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    I have several really good friends who Cam. And it doesn't bother me. they make money from sharing their beautiful bodies with the world. they do in fact bring a type of happiness and stress relief to many people.

    showing your body and slutting your body are two very different things. I would not be bothered to share my theoretical girls Sensual beauty with the world. if she was still a loyal, self respecting and more or less chaste person.
     
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    Yes I would that would turn me on knowing she making money touching herself.
     
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    I'm interested if you are still doing camming. How can I contact you? Please let me know ;)

    p.s. good payment... ;)
     
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    There are married porn stars and prostitutes.

    All depends on you, SO and how you deal with it.

    But yes there are guys that could have a great monogamous relationships with a woman who shares her sexuality in one way or another.

    When I was younger, it would have been more difficult for me, but now, I would have no problem with it, as long as I knew how she felt about me, and there was no dishonestly.
     
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    i dated a stripper. it doesn't seem much different.
     
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    It would bug me but I would have to watch you and see if it was worth the money...
     
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    if i really liked the girl i think i would understand why she did it
     
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    Come to think of it, I have seen online cams and the girls don't seem that intimate with the audience, maybe for those that pay extra, but I doubt it.

    Like anyone that does porn, I think I'd be more concerned about introducing her to friends and family and one of them having tossed one off to her.

    I think sex is a cool profession, but still can't imagine how every time a girl has something in one her orifices in front of a camera, they don't wonder if their dad, brother, pastor, or anyone from school will one day see this.
     
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    ^ yeah I would definantly try and make contact if I saw someone from HS lol.

    Idk I think it would be easier w/ a cammer than a stripper. I just couldnt handle an actual relationship with a stripper knowing she showing herself to random dudes. maybe FWB or one time thing, but thats it.
     
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    A girl who does online camming shows herself to random dudes all the time. What's the difference?
     
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    yet having premarital sex is the worst thing that could happen to you?

    I guess I'm old school, I don't really see any difference between camming and stripping. If she is responding to your input and masturbating upon your request, and taking money for it, I see that as borderline prostitiution. No I wouldn't date a girl that did that.
     
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    Well, a stripper is on a much more personal level. You can touch, smack, smell, they dance for you in the back room, stalker men know where they work, and you can even see vagina lips depending on what state you live in.

    Cam... she's just on cam. She poses nude and all but all you can do is just look.
     
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    You can go into private chat. Never tried that so don't know how intimate it gets. In private, the guy can also cam back, which I'm betting is almost always the predictable wang cam.

    Like all things, its where u take it.

    If its all an act for the girl, its just business and nothing else.

    Some girls are very self conscious and need to be reassured that their pretty to the point of obsession.

    Some may be unsure of their relationship and be looking to upgradde.

    You just both have to be really secure in ur relationship.
     
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    You can't touch all strippers. In one city here, lap dances are even illegal. Some strippers are able to set up their own boundaries, as with cam girls.

    Cam girls show their pussy, they masturbate, etc. So technically they do even more than strippers.
     
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    In Missouri, 10' barrier required between the stripper and customer and Gstrings and pasties required. Both are there to entice so I see no real difference.