Would you date a bisexual man

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  1. andylife

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    Hi all I have a mad question really im only asking because I have had half a bottle of red… here we go..

    Im bisexual, I explored not so long ago having a relationship with a guy hoping I was just gay I find being bisexuality so confusing and heart rendering….. its odd being bi sometimes I feel yes im gay 100% then boom I just fancy woman no in between… the confusing part of being bisexual for me anyway is emotions… I met a guy I through yes I want to be gay tho I struggled with feeling the emotional passion.. eg like I felt making love with a woman… .. its an odd feeling… I love having sex with both men and woman though on a different plane.. Kinder like in between channels.. I have read so much about being gay/bi and how people see it all…. In honesty I want to fall in love with a woman again feel the passion of a woman make love and feel emotional….. I never chose to be bisexual it kinda crept up whist I was not looking…. Don’t get me wrong,,, I love the feeling of sex with a guy.. Though it’s just an act, I love the act of it, it’s really hard to explain unless you are in the same boat.. the act of a guy Cuming in my mouth is such a turn, overcome by a new experience I confused it with passion, like he was my man was I trying to convince myself that I was gay don’t get me wrong I would have embraced being gay, I had hoped I was, sex with another man is amazing… for years I wanted to give another man oral sex… experience it how it would feel in your mouth, the shape of his head, the taste the softness, I love giving a guy oral, I love the feelings of sharing a guy’s orgasm it’s so intimate knowing you have just tasted his sex. It’s overwhelming to the point I wanted to be gay I wanted to just wake in the morning kiss him and tell him I’m going give him an orgasm with my mouth so I can swallow his cum. Most woman will tell you swallowing a guy’s cum is so overwhelming. My question is I have tried to be gay, to be gay I now know you have to have the capacity to emotionally fall in love with a man. Above and beyond sex… I confused the taste of sex with a guy… as emotional passion, what I have felt with a woman… … its mad to explain

    If I give a woman oral sex, I do it to make her feel good, I want her to orgasm emotionally I do it for her, I want my woman to be turn on. I would feel passion and real love when tasting her

    Now, I gave my boyfriend oral sex til he had an orgasm… I would swallow his cum, but felt empty, don’t get me wrong it feels gorgeous letting a guy cum in your mouth… it’s a mad feeling… I would do it now… it a gorgeous sensation the act of a guy Cuming in your mouth, the warm thick sensation of a guy’s cum is such a turn on… opps I got a bit carried away there… my question is this, from a woman’s point of view.. Most bisexual men feel how I do… they love the act of sex with a man though feel the passion and love of a woman. E.g. they can have sex with a guy but make love with a woman.. I have read that a lot of woman would date bi man and say they would not have an issue with it… most men I assume would jump at the chance of dating a bisexual woman… you have to agree being a bi woman have a twist and is seen as acceptable and even trendy.. So ladies in reality could you marry or date a bisexual guy, ponder for a moment,
     
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    No. I'd always feel like there was something he would want that I couldn't give him.
     
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    I feel I'm also bisexual so if I had ever left my wife Id most def date a bi man the only catch is have to make sure that the woman he also decides to sleep with I could also and we could have our alone sex and then with her we'd have sex together. Otherwise I'd feel it's cheatibg
     
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    What I kept taking away from this (kinda setting aside the inquiry about "Would You Date...?") is that you repeatedly said, "I wanted/I tried/I wish I was" in regards to being either homosexual or heterosexual.

    I'm not an expert. I'm not vastly experienced. However, going on what I know of "How People Work," you need to let go of these attempts to force yourself in-line with a particular set. Go with what works for you and what makes you happy. Stop being so hung up on the delineation between I Am With A Man/I Am With A Woman. I think if you do that, then you will find it much easier to feel happy, satisfied, and complete with your relationships - whether they end up being with a woman or a man.
     
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    I've been with (and married to one) for 8 years. Never been an issue.
     
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    10_3XL

    i understand where you are coming from.. i guess what you advise has always been my problem.. i tend to over analyze my sexuality
     
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    I known for years I was bisexual.. when I was married I never found the courage to tell her.. she wouldn't have accepted it... she thought two men having sex together was vile and unnatural so I kept it to myself
     
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    Nothing, he had just polished off half (which half ?) of a bottle of wine and was feeling philosophical, repetitive and melancholic.
    Happen to me all the time except I'm not bisexual ;)
     
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    LOL. Fair enough.
     
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    who can explain what a man finds attractive in another man . It's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same.
     
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    but im trying so hard to be the shepherd
     
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    Okay, Jules. :p