Would you be put off by??

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  1. amber123

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    I am in my 40's and came out of a long term relationship about a year ago. I wanted to take time for myself before getting back out there dating. I have three grown children and as a result I have some stretch marks on my abd and butt. I am in very good shape and not overweight at all but I feel self conscious about it. I also have somewhat large p$%^y lips. I am told I look very sexy but not sure if they would feel the same once my clothes come off. Will post some pics at some point. So guys is this a turn off for you and no need to be nice just be honest:)))
     
  2. Clintriprock

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    The potential problem will depending on your partner. If you're going to be self conscious about it it will show in your sexual performance. There are simple surgeries for both. If I were your partner and everything else was good it would be ok. We look at the overall package when were determining if someone is attractive
     
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    For me imperfection IS perfection.
     
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    Be confident in yourself. If he has an issue with it, then he can piss off.

    Looks fade. Personality and ability to communicate are what is needed for later in the golden years...
     
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    Hey enjoy yourself,welcome to the 40s buckle down and enjoy the ride.....their loss is anothers gain.
     
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    Definitely not a turn off it's Just turn opposite for me I'd find it a turn on
     
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    Thanks for all the input guys. I guess it has just been awhile
     
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    Never. A women's body is beautiful and a good man will know that. :)
     
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    You sound pretty sexy to me.
     
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    Wouldnt be a problem in my eyes. if they see it as an issue, there not the right person for you :)
     
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    Stretch marks shouldn't bother the right right guy or most guys.
     
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    Welcome to the forums. You can say "pussy" here. In fact, I think most of the guys here would insist.

    And speaking of pussy, some men like large pussy lips quite a lot. I think there's even a thread here about appreciating large pussy lips.
     
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    Absolutely no problems here. I am not exactly perfect either. Can't wait to see pictures.
     
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    Please don't overthink it. In my eyes there would NOT be an issue with that. And welcome to the SF.
     
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    No problem here.. I am a huge fan of any and all nudity.. I think it is just all so sexy!!!
     
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    You sound wonderful to me.

    You know I never realized how many women were uncomfortable/unhappy with the looks of their vagina until I started checking out boards like this and heard of plastic surgeries to "correct". The vagina is a beautiful thing, something so giving and pleasing is beautiful in all the shapes/sizes it comes in.
     
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    Honestly? Looking down with my thick cock pounding a hot big lipped pussy is a huge turn on. Those lips just GRABBING IT!
     
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    IMHO...we all have a few miles on us (some more than others). hopefully any partner you find will also understand this! for my part i consider attitude, intelligence and confidence to be the most attractive things a lady has to offer!
     
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    Actually your shyness about the word "Pussy" would be a bigger turn off than any stretch marks or protruding lips.
     
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    Most guys will take anything they can get. I don't happen to be one of them, but most guys will take anything offered so don't sweat it. A few of us are rather picky. I wouldn't be worried about stretch marks as long as you have a hard body attached to them. My wife is in her late 40s, never suffered any stretch marks through out two kids...but two C sections which are virtually invisible. She has a hardbody, cut abs, not a speck of cellulite. She does have a scar from appendicitis when she was 10 that still bothers her, but I don't mind it a bit. As far as pussy lips, as long as your not tripping over them....not a problem.