Would you be bothered?

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  1. Zazzles

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    We went camping recently and while having sex in our tent we were worried that other people camping would be able to hear us. It didn't worry us enough as we continued even though we were certain people could hear us. we want to know if you were the other people hearing a couple having sex, would it really bother you??
     
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    Whenever we hear someone else having sex, we're most likely having sex too. However, it's polite to try to be quiet. Just common civility. When you're camping, you don't want to hear other people playing loud music, arguing, or whatever anyway. I find that trying to stay quiet makes me focus on how the pleasure is building up in me, and how desperate it is to escape, and how I have to find other ways to let it do things to me.
     
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    It really depends on the situation. If there is families there they sure as hell don't want to hear you.
     
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    The question is Would you be bothered?
     
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    And I answered it. What I posted is an answer. You should have common courtesy for other people.

    And yes personally I would be bothered.
     
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    I would only be bothered if you can tell they weren't trying to be quite or if my child was with us.
    I have heard another couple in a tent having sex but you can tell they were trying to be quite. ... I was in a tent with someone I had been drinking with and we had flirted a lot before.....so uh yeah. ...we ended up having sex. :)
     
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    it wouldn't bother me a bit. We all have a little curiousity about how other people do it..
     
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    One night I was in a motel room after getting in late from a job and had to leave early the next morning. A couple in the next room, probably two foot from my head, started having loud sex. He must have really been pounding it for half an hour it seemed. This was after an hour of loud music and before the ensuing drunken argument. The next morning as I was leaving I called the front desk for a wake up call for that room and as I was leaving beat the hell out of their door. So yes, it bothered me a little.
     
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    I'm very sorry. I offer an apology. :)
     
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    It does not bother me unless it is the family setting and kids hear, no kids means go loud or go home
     
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    I can see both sides. Not sure I can say one way or the other.

    Were the other campers in your group or just the people next to you?
    Kids/no kids?
    What time at night?
    How loud were you?

    So, my answer: it depends
     
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    Bother me? Not at all.
    Depending on who was with me, it might even spark a bit of an orgy. :p
     
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    Definitely falling in with the "What's the context?" crowd. As pretty much everyone else has said - no, usually it wouldn't bother me, but there are some instances that would cause me to feel disapproval or irritation.
     
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    Depends who is with me.
    When my kids were young and with me and the ex, I would not appreciate
    With my ex, in the end it bothered me because I didn't want sex with her
    Now, bring it on.
     
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    I think it depends on the situation, camping you general think families so if there were kids around yes it would bother me.
    If not then I wouldn't be too bothered.
     
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    Just to clarify, there wasn't any kids around
     
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    go for it :)
     
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    Your at a campsite,I would hope the next camper is miles away!!...But you do have to use discretion depending where you are!
     
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    Well you can hear it, every year I attend an introduction week on a camping for my university and the word goes around since you can hear it.
     
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    Years ago I met my then friend at the campsite and we couldn't wait for evening to come, horny as heck.
    We got on with it but forgot to close the vent on the roof. There were campers in a tent next to us.

    I think the owner of the site knew we were going to play and chances are she probably came around to listen, my friend said she alluded to that during the day.