[Ask a Girl] would you act on your partners' fantasies?

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  1. jt _couple2012

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    Hi there,

    Would you girls act on your partners' fantasies? even if they involve other people? what would you feel about it?
    Also, what would you feel about a fantasy of his that involves Bi action?
     
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    Sorry - not a girl - I suffer from Respond To Everything Syndrome. :p

    Depending on the fantasy I would act (and/or have acted) on it and I know the same goes for my girlfriend. If either of us for any reason is not 100% comfortable then we put it off or forget acting on the fantasy altogether. No point in potentially stirring up negativity or resentment. (Note: We've never had issue with being totally opposed to acting out a fantasy that one/both of us have. There are a few that are still on the backburner, but none that have been totally vetoed.)

    My GF knows that I have bisexual tendencies/fantasies. She's said the thought of being witness to me with another man is arousing. Despite that we are both not inclined to make it a reality for various reasons. It is something we will keep as a hypothetical/down-the-road option for the time being.
     
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    Hey 3XL, Not at all man. I appreciate your reply. So far these fantasies get us exited when we talk about and we have not tried to act on them. It's just something I thought I should ask, I wanted to get some opinions specially from a female point of view but your opinion counts and appreciated. Thanks a lot
     
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    How I wish she would act on mine.... That's now a fantasy besides the fantasy itself:p. And if she did, I know she'd not object to some Bi action
     
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    Will you be brave and do it? or run like me, lol
     
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    Run??? No way!!!!
     
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    My current lady would not. My ex tried her best to fulfill any I had. I would most likely try and fulfill her fantasies as best I could( my current)
     
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    Yeah I would help him to live out fantasies, it wouldn't bother me being with others, unless its totally gross my outlook is try things before saying that I like
     
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    Once you open up with one another, acting out each other's fantasies can be a wonderful experience. Even the ones you would have never considered before can be extremely satisfying for both of you. You just each have to be willing to do so for the other, no matter how far out there they seem to be. Believe me, well worth it!
     
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    I would if my SO would tell me about them but there's not much talk about fantasies, i will edge something a little different in occasionally and take it from the reaction I get
     
  11. Rosa_g

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    yes of course all part of being in a relationship :)
     
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    Do you know what you've let yourself in for :rolleyes::)
     
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    Yep. Without question.
     
  14. Rosa_g

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    prop not but should be a hell of a ride lol ;)
     
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