[Ask a Guy] Would u date a girl who won't do anal?

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Would u date a girl who won't let u fuck her in the ass?

  1. yes

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  2. no

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  1. scar69

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    would u date a girl who refuses to even try anal sex with you?
     
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  2. lbushwalker

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    Sure; no desire to go there anyhow :)
     
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    Yeah, it's not high on my list of priorities.

    Besides - people have been known to change their minds/preferences. :)
     
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    no anal definatly not a deal breaker for me. the pussy is made for the job and does it better but the tabu of the bottom gives it intrique.
     
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    absolutely. I have no interest in anal sex
     
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    Sure. Now if she won't let me fuck her pussy, then we have problems! ;)
     
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    Female here: I've gone out with men who have never had anal. No one has said the reason they broke up with an ex is bc she wouldn't do anal.


    If a guy breaks up with you bc of that, he wasn't the guy for you. You deserve better.
     
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    I would assume that by the time anal is discussed, the two people are already dating, unless maybe the woman said "No anal" in her personals listing. So the question really is whether you would stop dating a woman if she refused to try anal. As it happens, we've had men right on this site who have started threads about how they're so frustrated that their girlfriends won't do anal that they're thinking of ending the relationship.
     
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    I would not ask for this. It just does not appeal . Afraid I am still vanilla.LOL
     
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    Not a big priority. It can be very erotic with the right partner and situation. However it's by no means a deal breaker. I think this is more of a thing that smaller men desire. With me, this activity is usually reserved for women that crave it.

    xx
     
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    Curious why size would come into play.? I've never had ass sex. Is it supposed to be tighter than vaginal?
     
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    Yes, much.
     
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    Very VERY MUCH...
     
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    yes. the only reason I would try anal is to know what it's like because someone wants to try; I would not be the one to approach the subject.
     
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    Of course, but it's not a deal breaker for me.
     
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    No Biggie
     
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    I don't think I'd want to do anal anywhere near the first few times. That's just me...
     
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    Well if I was a guy I wouldn't. There's lots of girls that like it anyway.
     
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    I know it's not the same but I am married to one for 27 years and I make it a point to be pain in her ass in many different ways.
     
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    Would I date a guy for whom anal was a deal breaker? Nope.

    I'm all for experimentation & trying new things out - one of the best parts about getting to know someone new, but if someone is going to make one sexual act the basis of whether to date or not then he's not for me & he'll never find out what he could be missing.
     
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