in my girlfriend's previous relationship, she had a bit of a pregnancy scare because it seems she wasn't playing 'safe'. i realize the std implications that arise from this, but that's not what this question is about. she and i are now getting ready to enter the sexual phase of the relationship, and i plan on taking the 'safer' approach and using protection, etc. but i'm a bit bothered because the whole 'no condom and coming inside of her' thing is a very intimate thing, and one that she and i won't be sharing. does that make sense? i realize the physical benefits of the 'safe' approach, it just seems like something that i'm getting hung up on psychologically. i start wondering if she was used to 'that way of doing things' in the past relationship, and if so, if it is something that she might somehow miss. thoughts?