[Ask a Girl] Working up to it

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  1. takenguy4more

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    I have recently found out my lady loves it when we are in the middle of foreplay and I play and finger her butt. Then in the doggy style position I spit on her butt hole and slipped my thumb in she went crazy! Do you have the same reaction? Then do you thing she might enjoy a butt plug?
     
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    Yes....Yes.....Yeessss....
     
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    Well, not all women. If I tried something like that with a friend of mine, she'd reconfigure my face.
     
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    BitchN... I take it you enjoy that! So should we start with a smaller one?
     
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    I'd probably have to say start with a smaller one to begin with, yeah. Don't want to hurt the lady =P
     
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    I know I'm not a fan of the butt hole.......
     
  7. Dragon_Fire

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    It's her butt, why can't she make her own mind up regarding what to shove up there?
     
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    You should be asking her what she wants instead of people on a forum.
     
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    I'm with ya on that.....the problem tho, is that most women won't talk about it. You ladies that are here, are here because you are in touch with your sexuality. Many aren't tho.....and he may have one that just can't talk openly about what she likes. Heaven forbid she be labelled a " slut" ....but agfunk is right, you have to try and open those lines of communication or you're headed for a long lonely sexual journey with her...Then again, I could be way off.....lol
     
  10. Dragon_Fire

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    I think guys are more uncomfortable talking about the intimacies of sex than women are, I'm not sure that a lot of men are truly in touch with their own sexuality. It's much easier to come on anonymously and ask strangers on a forum for advice than to open one's mouth and talk to one's partner but guys need to open up the lines of communication at home.
     
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    Yeah...kinda sexist of me , wasn't it.....didn't mean it that way....but since I've never had sex with a man, I have never had to talk to one about how it could be better between us....lol.....I suppose most people have problems talking about sex.....or Dr. Ruth would be out of a job...( uh, is she still alive?) .....
     
  12. Dragon_Fire

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    Unfortunately I've ended up being the educator with most of my partners or put up with cruddy sex. Thankfully the current bloke is a willing learner although he can be shy about expressing his needs which does annoy me because I'm not a mind reader.

    Not sure about Dr Ruth.
     
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    can somebody recomend a small vibrating butt plug? or a set that starts out small?