I have had sex with this woman a few times and I enjoy doing it with her except I have no idea what is going on. She always said she came a couple of times, a few times, but there are no signs of orgasms. she says she is a quiet cummer. Is she doing this to keep a guy around or what?. Ladies, can you educate me on this? Men too. My experience was always to notice tightening of the vagina, extra wetness,vocal, breathing, etc.