I'm a 30 year old male who is generally attracted to early to mid 20's women. The young women always seem to be afraid to aproch me or just talk to me. I love the fact that older women arent afraid to tell me what they think or want. When I approach the younger ones, they seem to get very shy and red in the face. It can be flattering and annoying at the same time! Almost like i'm ntimidating them. Is it in my approach, or insecurity?