[Ask a Girl] Women on Charge

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  1. VinceC

    VinceC New Member

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    So, I just came to the conclusion that I'm the girl on this relationship. I mean, according to the defined standards for relationships.

    Other than watching football, drinking beer and surfing the web for porn, :eyes I don't do many things that guys are supposed to do.

    She's the one who drives most of the times(I mean if Im kind of lazy and she drives better than me, what's the big deal), she has the iniciative almost every time about what should we do, what movie should we watch, where to go, she also has the iniciative on sex. And here's the worst, while she has no idea who Vera Wang or Tim Gunn are; I do know who they are and watch Project Runway and Fashion Police regularly :lol

    I mean, I know, relationships today are based on dialogue and agreement, and that's what we do, noboby imposes nothing on the other, but the common idea of a guy-girl relationship is with the dude on charge of most things.

    so my question to the ladies is

    Would you freak out with a guy like me? You being the one who calls most of the shots?
    Do you prefer the idea of being with a guy who's in charge of everything,like an alpha male?
     
  2. Meee

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    I think you'll find that most of the members here don't care about the defined standards for relationships and the common idea of a guy-girl relationship. You shouldn't either. And you might want to stop thinking of girl behavior as "worst." Why shouldn't your girl behavior be the best part of yourself?
     
  3. VinceC

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    No, no, I don't think the girl role is the worst on a relationship, sorry if I gave that impression, just not the common role for a dude.

    But I completely agree with you on the last part, maybe my girl behaviour is what makes me a better person, a better lover, I don't know
     
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    VinceC, actually you are acting exactly like many a dude: lazy and happy to let the gal do all the work!
     
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    My guy is a little like you- I do the majority of the driving and make the majority of the decisions on where to go for our dates and such. We are both more of the submissive type, but when it comes to every day things, he gives me the reigns. in the bedroom, he's most often the initiate. i don't think he's effiminate by any means, but i have to admit, sometimes it would be nice if he enjoyed sports.... i mean, i can throw a perfect spiral and hit a baseball and watching him try to do those things makes me giggle, but sports aren't his thing, and thats ok. Embrace yourself, your GF obviously has.
     
  6. suzy7

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    Well, that is very insulting, if for a minute you guys think you
    are ever in charge,hummm.
    My friend, the only time a man is in charge if we allow you to think
    that, in other words, sit back, relax and we will handle things,right?
    I hope that sheds some light on your adolescent question, LOL.
     
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    Attagirl S7, tell 'em how it is!
    Love your style :)
     
  8. VinceC

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    Lol, I'm 15 again
     
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    LOL, now Mr. Van Halen you know how things work, lol.
    have a great weekend.sb
     
  10. VinceC

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    Heheh sucking at sports! I know a little bout that lol

    Thanx for ur post


    I guess I have to be aware bout the way things work lol, u too have a great weekend