women - how do you masturbate?

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  1. markx

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    any details on how you masturbate? do you use your fingers obejcts or a vibe? how long do you do it for? do you get wet and do you feal good inside yourself? do you stimulate your clit or do you go against your vaginal walls
     
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    no one wants to share in details? i really am curious
     
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    Hmm

    :eyes i guess I do it a bit oddly...for some reason, it's kind of embarrassing to touch myself and all, when I'm alone, so instead I kind of just rub on things with a lot of different textures, and sometimes use vibes, but it's so awkward :yell .
     
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  5. Maggie_05

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    Well i guesse i can give some juicy details.Yes I masturbate (often), I use a variety of things when I masturbate. I use my fingers sometimes, when I was younger I discovered long candles worker very well, sometimes I still use them. I have some toys. (As far as preference goes it just depends on what i feel like using). I usually masturbate in different time frames. normally its 10 to 15 mins (i've gone as quick as 2 min, that was a blast, and as long as 2 hours before I had an orgasm). What fun would masturbation be if it wasn't wet? (image having sex without a hard) I love being inside myself, and i do clit, g-spot, vaginal, all kinds of stuff. Even had an orgasm analy once, but just once.

    Is that enough details or do you want more?
     
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    More!!!!
     
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    i love to touch myself

    I'd love to share.!!
    My clit is my favorite part of myself. I love to use anything electric to vibrate it. Anal beads enhance my6 orgasm to the utmost extent. It feels sooooooooooo good to rub my clitty and use something anally. ( especially if your on film, ;)
     
  8. Fairy

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    I like to masturbate by rubbing my clit really hard, first in circular motions then rub the sensitive tip or a bit and that braings me close, sometime si fun my fingers inside myself and wiggle them around like my boyfriend does when he fingers me. Thats is great. I have never used a vibrator but I have it on good authority that its worth it. I do ti whenever I am alone and feel horny, often when looking at porn on the internet or reading one of my boyfriends magazines. I get quite horny when looking at the other naked woman actually (not that Im a lesbian - tried that and im definately not).
    Are you asking what its like because you want to try it? if yes then go for it, everyone has there own style of masturbation its what works for you i guess. Just start rubbing a little then enter if you like, I suggest you start with your fingers and then go on the use toys if you feel the need. Oh an Yes I get VERY wet, I often masterbate just before my boyfriend gets home so that I am ready for him to enter me right as he walks in the door without faffing around with foreplay first to get lubed up and relaxed.

    Enjoy your body dude xxx
     
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    I'm pretty sure he was asking because he was hoping that someone would post something good to stroke to, which is a fine motive.
     
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    Fairy, you say you've had lesbian experience. Could you go to the lesbian section and check out my post. Please??? Also if you want something to stroke to just say and I'll go into detail about one of my sessions.
     
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    Yeah, I masterbate alot. Sometimes I rub in a circular motion on my clit, or a combination of this and fingers inside my cunt or arse. I would like to get better at G-spot stimulation but it's hard work from that angle and my partner doesn't do it for long enough, so I feel deprived of G-spot stimulation. I need a long time to get going and need to fantasise at the same time. I also love to use objects like deodorants, cucumbers, bananas or vibrators. I do get wet, but sometimes more than others. I am straight, (well reasonably) had one leso experience, but I probably fantacise more about women than men, which is strange coz in reality I prefer men and cocks. I do like to look at female bodies but they have to be hotter than your average chick off the street. Any tips from anyone out there on how to hit the old G-spot without your arm falling off would be great!
     
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    Well hitting it is one thing, having an orgasm through it is another. I know how tired you can get trying to work that but its more than worth it in my opinion. If you like toys like you say you do go to a store and just ask about g-spot stimulators, I have on thats a normal vibrator with a curve at the end. But if you just wanna send the good ol fingers try this. Lay on your back and a finger, or specialized toy in about two inches. You'll feel it on the "ceiling" of your vagina and just rub like that for a while till you find it. Thats how I learned, hope I could help.
     
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    Thanks

    I will buy a G-spot stimulator.
     
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    The g-spot vibrators are great. I get the g-spot with one of those or with a really nice thick dildo with nubs around the bottom that flick up against my clit when I plunge it in deep. To have a -spot orgasm, first get yourself horny. Don't touch it for a few days till you feel like the first breeze that blows across it when you slip your pants down is going to push you over the edge. Stimulate the clit with the head of the fat dildo/vibrator, but not too much.. tickle it and get yourself hot hot hot. Then get away from the clit and plunge with the fatty. Take it slow at first and have confidence that you're going to get there. Just *know* you are going to have a deep g-spot orgasm. Talk about it to yourself if that helps. "This is gonna be soooo good." etc. Sometimes it helps to sit up a bit so the dildo gets kinda hooked under the g-spot and goes "kerplunk" when ya pull it out. Keep it up and have finess... squeeze tight and save the deep and hard till the very end.

    You'll get there... and it'll rock too. Trust me.

    :)
     
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    I've been masturbating since i was 6 years old...I would do it all the time...the new discovery i found of my body was amazing..as the years went on...and i became a teenager...i got hornier..i wasn't having sex frequently..i would sneak downstairs and find anything that resembled a penis...sometimes it was a big fat cucumber...or a carrot...then sometimes..i'd use plastic bottles...that were round in shape...

    Now that I'm older...I have a dildo...i use and i simutaneously...use my fingers in circular motions...
     
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    6 years old!:eek:. WOW! thats pretty young. I guess that proves that women are a lot hornier than guys. But i wonder why most of them wait for the man to make the moves?
     
  17. Logger

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    I did not realize this, before I was just glancing at some Sexology Abstracts, but the female prostate is where the G spot is. The Female prostate is what produces the come juice from the clitoris/urethra. Very similar to the function of the male prostate, injecting come juice into the urethra.

    I'm still learning.

    Blessings
     
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    I like to masturbate in the shower with the removable shower head, I think they are called shower massagers. The water on my clitoris is amazing. Actually it's the only way I can make myself orgasam, I was always taught the masturbating was wrong by my Mother and Grandmother, so I never really experemented too much, my BF now is helping me to relax and enjoy myself. Besides no one is watching right? ;)
     
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    Dear Mystic,

    Maybe they just did not want you asking them how come they spent so much time in the shower, or why the bed was creaking when they were sleeping alone. Most people do not admit to masturbation. I guess I feel sorry for people who actually cut themselves off from that pleasure of masturbation, for reasons of principle.

    Last night I focused on my Wife's G spont, in vaginal sex. I kept my stroke in the 2 to 4 inch insertion range, and after a while, she go real wet. My wife had been enjoying deeper insertion, but had pain from the deeper insertion later on. I like deeper insertion, but 2 to 4 Inches worked OK. I let wife to move her hips, by keeping my stroke regular, she could predict where I would be, and I believe she was guiding my tip to her G spot. I did not talk to her about it. We are not talking right now, as I am not cooperating as fully as I ordinarily provide. Some overlapping boundaries to work out.

    W might not know where her G spot is, and may just be moving to what feels good for her, which is fine. I know where it is.

    Blessings
     
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    Dear Odyssey 05,

    I used a circular motion on my wife last night, seemed to work good. I had my index finger next to her clitoris, while I was stroking my penis inside her vagina, from the side. I moved my hand in a small cirlce, and her clortoris and vagina moved with my hand, I guess gliding over hte pubic bone. W started more hip movement and deeper breathing as I moved my hand in a small, even speed, circle.

    Thanks for sharing.

    Blessings
     
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