[Ask a Girl] Women and pictures

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  1. mars74

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    I have a question for the ladies. My wife and I have had the discussion regarding the differences between men and womens stimulations, she claims that women are not visually stimulated like men. her claim is that it is a mental stimulation.
    Anyway, her claim is also that women do not find dicks to be attractive..what do you ladies think?
     
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    Well I think it depends. A hard penis is more attractive than a soft one! But generally you do not sleep with a man for the views.
     
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    I don't get off to images of someone's penis. Nor do I get off to someone's photo of their vagina. I think just a photo of aforementioned body parts is actually quite tacky.

    Put effort into taking the photo, be creative, tease.. Show you value yourself more then a hunk of meat.
     
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    I am not saying photos of them....she is saying the a in general a penis is not an attractive body part and most women don't find them attractive
     
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    its more the setting of the shot, than the dick in the picture
     
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    I feel for me it is a joint effort to stimulate me. To see a Woman in person in front of me moving and slowly taking off of her clothing is a huge turn on. Pic's are nice and do not stimulate me as much as a real person. There is also the sounds of her sliding over the bed, the sound of her skin softly brushing against it self. Then there are the smells of a Woman the sweet wisp of her perfume or shampoo or body wash ect. The smell of her body which is her pheromones that isn't readily detectable ,but if you really pay attention they are re. Then once aroused the smell of a woman's vagina gives off the most amazingly arousing smell. Add all this together and Boom it tares me up !
     
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    "Everybody almost-never-always" has the same take--fortunately, about anything sexual. Pictures are only a minor contention. Women with whom I've been intimate had *some* opinions re: visual stimulation, but no two held the same view on it. I've never been with one who was only into playing in the dark, so I doubt I've heard all the possible points-of-view on the visual side!

    As an Exhibitionist, I tend to get involved with ladies whose tastes are somewhat linked to that. I'm happy to report THAT'S quite a range of tastes, too!

    Pics of just 1 body-part (could be almost anybody's) can be snapped with relatively cheap cameras. To do it better, TANSTAAFL(UYB). Higher res & competent zoom lenses tend to be found in boxes, not in blister-packs. Best regards, all.
     
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    That bit about women not being visually stimulated is just an old wives tale. I for one am visually stimulated. I look for and look at porn. I have an extensive porn collection. My husband has a very nice looking dick that I enjoy looking at and playing with. Doing so turns me on and is I think an essential part of foreplay for me.
     
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    Guy here but I'm gonna jump in. I know my wife is stimulated by both visual and erotic stories. While porn is not a daily thing, she enjoys watching and uses it to get off. Many times I have herd her comment on a cock while watching. Maybe its her oral obsession, not really sure.