Women 1st Notice? help a confused guy!!

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  1. Simon70

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    so if i were at a party what would women notice about me or any guy? Would it be the clothes, height and body, or woul they go straight for the face? I am just curious to know what goes on in the mind of a women when they notice a guy. Sometimes I wish I could hear the thoughts women have about me.

    I need your guys help, anyone even the guys, I have to achieve my goal of getting laid in a month, which is september 22!

    Any comments, please HELP is not only desired but also needed!!!!
     
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    The first thing that draws me to a guy is his smile. However, I don't care about his teeth--I'm looking for a genuine smile that expresses confidence. So really, it's confidence that reels me in. If you're comfortable around other people (such as at a party) and this comes off as natural (rather than an act for attention or something like that), then I know I'll probably be comfortable around you. This worked to get my SO laid every time before we got together, and it's what got him laid by me when we first got together too! :)
     
  3. Sexual Guy

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    Just depends what they like. If you are a friendly person then you will probably smile and talk to anyone and girls like to guys having a fun time. Height is important to girls.

    Forget getting laid, this should not be your goal. It will just come by when least expected.

    Why by 22nd?
     
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    Any number of good reasons:
    Joseph Smith claimed God talked to him and Mormonism was born.
    Switzerland became an independent state.
    Someone tried to assassinate Pres. Ford.


    seems like as good a day as any to get laid.
     
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    Sounds like he is pushing himself to accomplish something.
     
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    Dude ... commemorating the establishment of Switzerland sounds like the perfect reason to sexually celebrate.
     
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    What happens on that day when he is still struggling?
     
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    Then go hire an escort/prostitute and get'er done.... seriously, if you have a goal to get laid by, it's not going to be a memorable experience. It's one thing to be a virgin at your age, it's another thing to be desperate and willing to hit any tail that walks by.
     
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    You wrote that you "have" to get laid by the 22nd. Would you mind explaining what will happen if you don't? You didn't make a bet with someone, did you?

    As for what women notice, of course they'll notice superficial things like your clothing, but the key to keeping a woman's attention has more to do with your personality. The sexiest thing about a man is his mind. You need to exude self-confidence, smile, be funny without being obnoxious. A sense of humor is also very sexy. What isn't sexy, however, is desperation. I agree that you shouldn't make getting laid the goal, but I suppose that depends on your intentions: are you interested a relationship or are you primarily concerned with getting laid? If you're at a party, getting laid can be as simple as finding yourself a tipsy slut. Just be sure and use protection, in any case.
     
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    It would have to be 'confidence'.
    Sprinkle that with a genuine smile and a pleasant demeanor, you'll catch glances all evening :tup

    Of course, wearing a T-shirt that states: "I NEED TO GET LAID BY SEPT. 22!!" might draw some attention, as well. :lol - just kidding...
     
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    :eyes definatly telling people that you NEED to get laid before Sept. 22end isnt going to get you laid trust me..If someone told me that I would seriously laugh in there face.


    But to your question, I notice the package as a whole, how he is dressed, if he's cute, and I have a thing for men that were baseball style hats ;)
     
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    Methinks you missed my joke.
     
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    Um, I notice neatness, and cleaniness,and a cute smile, and the eyes. But he has to sound intelligent when he opens his mouth. And why the 22nd?
     
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    I need to get a bunch of shirts like that, but all different dates on them :D What the heck is wrong with "August 27TH"?

    One shirt could even say "I NEED TO GET LAID NOW!":brow
     
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    I think a shirt that says "I love to eat pussy" might get you maybe a little more mileage than a shirt that says "I need to get laid by Sept. 22".

    If Sept 22 is your birthday or something, maybe you could get a shirt that says "Please bonk me for my birthday (it's Sept. 22)!" You might get a pity screw that way.

    Hmmm...come to think of it, my birthday is Sept 12...maybe I'll get a shirt too! "It's my birthday...show me your birthday suit!" Or maybe "It's my birthday...want to re-live my conception?"

    BD
     
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    If a man walks by me and I smell money, that's good enough for me and the chase it on! :dgrin
     
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    err... why does it matter? Everyone has different tastes, it's not like you're gonna be able to make everyone find you attractive. You cant change your face or body by sept 22 (which btw sounds like a silly plan) and it's doubtful that you're gonna go shopping for a whole new wardrobe so....i dont really see where knowing what women notice first is gonna help you out.

    The confidence advice however, is good, but that may be hard to pull off if you're desperate to get laid.
     
  18. Simon70

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    Ok, i am just messing around about the sept 22 comment. I was just curious to think what you would all say and I apoligize about that. I just think that when i see a woman, they think what a creep or eww he is ugly. I just get nerves and do not know what to do. I think that women are always judging before they talk and get to know a person, AT LEAST ME. This is why I am asking this question. Im a person were I like to know what people think and say about me. I just wish I could read minds i guess
     
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    Well this is just my 2 cents and I dont mean to sound rude at all, and I will apologize in advance for it, in case it does.
    First off, who cares what other people think of you!! In my opinion what I find to be most attractive about a male or female is the way the present themselves, confident, comfortable etc.. You have to be comfortable in your own skin, to be noticed.
    Life is to short to wonder what women or even men think about you, or your appearance or what we notice first. Confidance and security are a win in my book, no matter what they actually look like on the outside, it is what is in their heart, and how they present themselves. I guess I am a little bit of an odd ball since I look outside the physical aspect. Just my opinion.
     
  20. FlirtyChick

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    I wish I could read minds too, but I can't. If you think that women think you are a creep, or ugly, that is exactly what vibe you are going to put out. Just act like you own the room, but not in a pompous way. Catch a girl's eye, and smile at her. If you catch her looking again, walk over and start a conversation. If she gives you the chill, move on. You cannot just stand by the wall and expect women to flock to you. It's all a big game. The girls are just as worried about what the men think of them at your age, and sometimes beyond. My motto is if you don't take a chance you will never know, and you might miss something important. Don't work so hard on getting laid, but work harder on making friends, getting to know women, and building relationships. They don't have to be serious relationships, but the more people you know the more chance you have of meeting that girl that is going to lay you. Make sense??