[Ask a Girl] will my body hair get in the way my my sexual attractiveness?

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    those are my pics. i'm 20 years old i have lots of hair on my arms and chest. some women say they're ok with body hair, but a lot of them say it is repulsive and deal breaker. most guys around my age don't have it and i feel like young hairless look is in. how essential is it that i shave my body hair in order for me to be able to find girls who are physically attracted to me? should i shave my chest hair, my arm hair, both, or neither?
     
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    Find out for yourself. Shave your body hair and see if it increases your sexual attractiveness.

    BD
     
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    I can't see the picture, but I'll go with the suggestion and try shaving and see if it makes a difference. I natrually have a very light coating of hair on my chest and just a little on my arms and legs, and I have had women partners say to me that they prefer men with less body hair.
     
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    Trim it down yo!
    that's the way to do it.

    just think for yourself, if u want to be with a woman, do u want her hair all grown out on her pus$y and arm pits? if yes, then keep it.
     
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    I think hairy chests are sexy, as long as not overly so. I have no preference in that area, as I find smooth chests to be sexy as well......
     
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    Younger ladies prefer men with less body hair but as women mature she will usually prefers a man to look like a man.

    I like men who have facial hair and body hair (no back hair though) and hairless balls.
     
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    That all depends on who you ask ...I however shave everything.
     
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    I know that a lot of girls really have no difference-making say on the matter. Being a girl myself, I can safely say that I don't mind a hairy chest every once in a while. Sometimes it looks sexy on particular men, much more than if they had shaved or extracted the hair in any sort of manner. I think what puts some girls off would be the extreme can, as much as anything overly exceeding the norm would normally draw either fascination or disgust. I wouldn't mind a hairy guy, but would feel slightly uncomfortable doing it with a grizzly-type guy for instance. Other girls are put off by the completely hairless ones on the other end of the spectrum. Guess it's more of a taste or culture thing.

    Pity I can't view the pic. Maybe I would have had a more helpful answer. But to close, it usually doen't really matter to me. Oh well, cheers!
     
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    I hated hairy chests when I was younger and liked that smooth look but as I've got older, I actually prefer the hairy chest.

    My SO took to his with clippers about a month ago (he's not overly hairy at all, just a light covering on his chest) and when I saw it I asked him why he did that... He said he thought it might be sexy. Meh, I like it hairy.
     
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    Most girls find my lack of body hair strange, but attractive.
     
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    I wonder the same myself, Hero. I'm a pretty hairy 19 year old... I've been called a wolf-man and gorilla. Shaved doesn't seem to work for me, but neither does completely hairy. I'd say maybe take to an electric razor with a trimming attatchment. Younger girls prefer less hair, but more mature women often prefer hair. So why not meet them halfway and just give yourself a trim? Let your manliness show, but keep it clean.
     
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    For me are more attractive men that shave. Because if I want to eat chocolate from his chest (for an example) I would no like hairs getting in my way.
     
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    Snackin' without flossin'....grrrrrrrrr....

    BD
     
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    I'm not real hairy but what I have bothers me so mostly shave or at least trim but guess what?
    My lovers (plural) beg me to keep it on.
    Why is that?
    That has me beat because at my age all are going to salt & pepper.
    BTW, I hate hairy nipples, male or female and I have em'
     
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    The OP started this thread November of last year and hasn't replied to the thread since, so why are ya'll still giving him your opinions? ???
     
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    Because we can and people are still interested in the discussion.
     
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    :popcorn

    This is gonna be good!
     
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    Nah FC,
    No vacant ringside seat.
    CL and I have an understanding; we don't bitch one another.
    We agree to disagree on a number of issues is all, but we always respect each other's opinions.
     
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    I just came across this thread and it's been a good read..but I have another question to expand on the OP's question..

    If a guy shaves his balls/groin area, but still has a good bit of hair on his legs, would that be a turn off? I've trimmed but never shaved all the way because I have pretty hairy legs and I don't want to shave my legs, but I'm afraid with the contrast there it'd be a turn off..but maybe I'm just thinking about it too much :p