Will I freak him out?

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  1. scorpio_nymph

    scorpio_nymph New Member

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    i want to ask a guy to gag me with a belt while he hits it from behind.
    guys, if i asked you to do that, would you be freaked out and put off?
     
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    If a girl asked me to do that I wouldnt mind, a little kinkyness is always good :D

    Make sure your belt doesnt have any studs on it :p
     
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    I would love that.
     
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    Your posts make a man drool:drool
     
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    Depends on the guy, but if you are lucky...no.
     
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    No, for me I would be getting the scene set up before you finished your sentence :dgrin
    but not all guys are like me, some may think it is weird.
    You could ask him if he has ever watched that kinda porn and that you think it is a little kinky.
    If you have never talked about BDSM, you should ease into the subject, so it won't completely freak him out (only if you know he doesn't know a lot about BDSM)
    I am going to send you a message to a site that can give you something both to look at.
     
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    If it came right out of nowhere, "gag me with a belt and hit it from behind," I'd be a little stunned and, yeah, "freaked out and put off." If I was approached in the right way, as a part of a night of kinkiness, I could get into it. We've played around with restraints, candle wax, spanking, flogging, etc. That's always been fun, so what you're talking about could also be fun under the right circumstances.
     
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    Im no statistic man, but im pretty sure 99 percent of anyone would not disagree to gagin a girl and hittin it from behind as you put it. As long as the girls alright with it. Its completely amazing to ask a guy. And if he is your lover, he will do as you ask "if hes a good one" if its a stand up thing, again it works either way but I wouldnt trust just anyone to gag or tie me up if we arent together. GO FOR IT!
     
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    If you like that you need a man that does also. You don't say your in a steady relationship so ask!! Get what you want. You don't want a guy that does not like what you do.
     
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    Well said! It really is going to depend on the guy, so be upfront about your fetish and if it frightens someone off, keep looking. Maybe you'd be interested in utilizing a BDSM dating site.
     
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    I would be stunned and thanking heaven if my girlfriend would ask that:p
     
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    I wouldn't care how a women said it. I don't care if we were in front of a fireplace or at a party, I'll race her home for that.
     
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    I would be reaching for the belt as soon as she said it.
     
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    Honey, if you ask your guy to do that and he gets freaked out, you should say screw him and come pay me a visit in LA. -snaps belt-
     
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    ohh..that would be hot...I'm pretty sure most guys wouldn't have a problem with doing that ;)
     
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    sounds interesting. i wouldnt like a belt around my neck but some boys like that kinda thing, good luck making it come true :)
     
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    well it sounds interesting and i think it would definitely be fun to try :D
     
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    ehh kinda weird for meeee but be interesting to try out..
     
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    As long as you did not suffer any excessive pain or physical harm. I've seen that happen when these things get carried away. You must know from the beginning about the communication between the dom and submissive. There is a fine line between safe fun and danger. I'm not a kill joy but know all you can about what you desire before you do it.:nerv
     
  20. Mr.Tongue

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    if it something outta left field he might wonder were you came up with it and start to wonder if there is another SO.
    might a little pull my hair thing and kinda work it in that way over a few fucks