Will he think I am a freak

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by privateuser, Jun 29, 2007.

  1. privateuser

    privateuser New Member

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    As a couple we don't do much sexual things.
    Yes we have sex and stuff not very often and nothing very adventerous.

    I want to be more open when we are having sex but will he think I am a freak if I do stuff like:

    play with my own nipples when he is rubbing me.

    or rub my own clit when sucking him off.

    I don't get in the mood much so am looking for ways to help get turned on so I can orgasm easier.
     
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    I play with my nipples when my s.o is rubbin me and also rub my own clit while sucking him I find that it actually turns him on a little more.

    My s.o has seemed to of brang the sex beast out in me I was never very adventerous with my ex's and when I started opening up I though my s.o would find it werid that I was playing with myself while sucking him etc so one night I said babe hm You seem to have turned me on that much that I want to explore while doing stuff his face had a huge smile and he said Id love you to maybe saying something like that would put ur mind at ease or if all else fails just start doing it and see how he reacts :)
     
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    girl this is some pretty tame stuff,

    by that, I am not coming down on you, I just mean this is pretty normal stuff

    most men are very visual and love to see there partners pleasuring themselves, so no I don't think he would be like "OMG is she actually touching herself, I think that is Heresy"

    I think your in the clear:)
     
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    i would say that the majority of guys out there would LOVE you to do that. if for any crazy reason that he doesnt like that id hope that hed be understanding that it helps u acheive an easier orgasm. haha id def. go for it.
     
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    Privateuser, I think it's great that you are this advanced at the age of 24. I never had the nerve to touch myself until about 4 years ago when I asked my husband it that was ok. (I'm 41) He said 'yes', and I've been doing it ever since. I still pinch my nipples when he's not looking, though. ;) It's kind of funny, actually, I will use a vibe on myself in front of him (just started doing that a few months ago) but I won't let him see me touch my nipples.
     
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    There is nothing more sensual than seeing my GF touching her breasts, squeezing and pinching her nipples. She also has her best orgasms while rubbing her clit while I suck on her nipples and finger her G-spot. I love that "we" can give each other that pleasure.
    Just do it sweetie...he'll love it.
     
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    No, he won't think you're a freak. If anything it should turn him on. When I first started having sex I felt the same way, but I eventually got over it with a little help. :)
     
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    Sounds great to me. Would love to havea girl do that, a HUGE turn on.
     
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    Nothing turns my SO on more than watching me touch myself, unless it's thinking about me touching myself. :) Trust me, he'll love it. And if he doesn't I'd check to see if he's actually alive.
     
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    I concur completely. That way everyone gets what they want!

     
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    He should LOVE it if you do that.
     
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    Nothing wrong with that I love it when my girl does that it turns me on big time...
     
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    He'll dig it! I do..justthinking about it.
     
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    I love it when my wife puts her fingers inside her vagina while I making love to her. Something else to try if you please.
     
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    from what i have seen, guys like it when girls are a little freaky
     
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    Yes. I think that is hot. Play with yourself please.
     
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    I concur with ALL the others who posted ahead of me. Nothing turns me on quicker than my wife rubbing my crotch... except the sight of her rubbing her own. Whew! Hot, hot, hot!
     
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    i dont see y he would think ur a freak, that seems like normal stuff to me.
     
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    Men are very visually stimulated, so chances are, he'll be surprised at the change in your behavior, but very pleased about it! x
     
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    I think he will feel the thrill when u do that.