As a couple we don't do much sexual things. Yes we have sex and stuff not very often and nothing very adventerous. I want to be more open when we are having sex but will he think I am a freak if I do stuff like: play with my own nipples when he is rubbing me. or rub my own clit when sucking him off. I don't get in the mood much so am looking for ways to help get turned on so I can orgasm easier.