My wife has recently told me more about her sexual past and it is bothering me a lot for some reason. She has told me about her boyfriends and a 1 night stand she had, I also know she had a guy in college (which she said was not really a boyfriend). Also when we met she was hanging out with someone I know of as we were all living in a beach town for the summer. She has told me since she had a guy force himself on her when she was 14 and because of that she never really enjoyed sex. She is from a very small town in upstate NY and I always figured theres not a lot of options so she dated within the people she knew. She has recently told me that she also slept with 2 of her guy friends after being out drinking. She said she slept with each of them only twice over a year window between an on and off relationship with her then BF. So from 19 to mid 20(1 and a half years) there was 5 guys she slept with. Her BF, 2 friends, a 1 night stand and some friend of a friend she met in a bar and liked. She kept going to meet him but nothing came of it, well of course nothing. He had his cake and was eating it too! It bothers me that she slept with these guys for some kind of attention but why her friends? Is that normal within groups of friends?