[Ask a Girl] wife's number of men

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    My wife said she slept with 8 different men in her past is that a lot
     
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    How old is she? How long have you been together?

    How old are you? How many people have you slept with? Do you think it's a lot?
     
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    How many have you slept with?......someone's previous history shouldnt come into it really.....I mean...
    You could marry a virgin with 0 or a former sex worker that numbers in the hundreds....and either one could turn out to be your soul mate:eyes
     
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    Would be a lot if it was in the same day.
     
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    Mine is 37 yrs old, slept with over 110, which is fine because I am reaping all the training she had. LOL
     
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    Does it really matter to you?

     
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    :lol:lol

     
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    When I got married at 28 I had previously been with 9 different women. It would have been more if I could have figured out how to make women want me.:p So I don't think 9 is a lot, just enough to start figuring out how to do it right.

    Oops, sorry, I'm not a girl. But then we aren't applying double standards... are we.
     
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    It depends on if she had eight guys before or after you got married. If it's after, I'd say that's a lot. A wise man once told me, "Everybody wants to marry a nice girl who doesn't fuck. When you marry her that's what you have, a nice girl who doesn't fuck."
     
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    ha that's pretty funny..
     
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    For the wife I was #5, for me #47 and we're happy.
     
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    No - I don't think it matters - what matters is how you feel about her.

    Is she concerned with how many women you slept with?
     
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    8 so what, guys fuck so unless they are gay they need women right?
    My belief is that some experience is better than none but as always it depends on the individual person and circumstances.
    If it were me I would not worry but then I have been around a bit myself.
     
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    In Australia, 8 would be the low side of average for a woman's lifetime. For me it's well over 100 but I don't really know the actual number because I didn't count. That caused some concern for my wife when I told her. A prostitute could be into many thousands (take 3 or 4 men per day by 250 working days by a few years in the industry).
     
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    "A lot" is a matter of perception. I could care less how many men Dreamer slept with. I'm only concerned with the one she is sleeping with now...me.

    I do, however, ask her about her past experiences. I can usually draw some good information from those questions.
     
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    That's not a lot IMO.
     
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    Untamed so dam right :)
     
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    Regardless of the number , big or small, cant do a damn thing about it anyway!!! The past is the past!