Wifes fantasy?

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  1. Joboo6

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    While she says she will never do a threesome again she has developed a new outlet. She like to watch videos of guys with big dicks. When she has a few cocktails she has me use a dildo on her while she watches these guys perform. Recently she saw a video on here, a short video of a guy with a fat cock fucking a girl from behind. A pov type video of just his torso and her ass as she is offering her pussy from behind. She loves doggy but I have never been able to make her come from behind unless I reach around to manipulate her clit. With a big dildo she comes when I do her from behind with no other stimulation. When she watches a video of a lady getting from behind and I do the dildo she comes very quickly. During our only MMF the guy made her come while he did her from the back. Does it have to do with size? I have gone at it with her from the back 100s of time and she has never climaxed. Everytime I do it with the dildo she easily comes. She always says it was this or that why she didn't come but never says it my size. I know it must be and it makes me sad since she like that position better than any other and she always seems frustrated when she has to get on top to come. Any advice?
     
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    Seems to be a combination of the visual with the feel for her. I'm sure that you're more than adequate as a lover -- and since you are willing to indulge her that says a lot. Many people (predominantly men, but women, too) feel a stronger sense of arousal when presented with a larger-than-ordinary penis. That's why Big Cock is such a popular tag/feature in pornography. I couldn't explain why to anyone - but it is a general trend that I have noticed and read about in various places.

    If you want in on the action you could consider buying an enhancer/extender. Basically, it is a dildo that you can slip on over your penis that will increase your length/girth artificially. I can't provide any more info than that, however, as I have only ever seen them for sale - never tried one or known anyone who has tried one.
     
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    Size does make a difference. But it's very difficult for a woman to tell her man about it, because it's something he can't change and we know it can put a guy down. I hate telling lies, but all the times a man asked me something about his size, I've tried to work on an answer that wouldn't hurt his feelings.

    There are plenty of other positions to explore, and you're using the dildo on her.

    Anyway, size is only one factor of the sexual equation. And it isn't the most important one.
     
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    It is only doggy style (I hate that term) that I have issues. She has told me from the beginning that is her favorite position. She orgasms on top and with me on top and various other positions. I guess after seeing her orgasm with the guy we did the 3 way with I'm jealous or something. He just took her from behind and she had an orgasm with nothing but his penis. His was so much bigger than mine I figured that the size had something to do with that position. She also comes quite easily from behind when we use the dildo which is about the same size as the guy that got her off. It gets to the point where she just stops me and gets on top and has an orgasm. It makes me feel inadequate, I can't remember giving any girl an orgasm from behind. I'm not long at 5.5 inches but I'm 5 around which I hear is a little above average. Do you come when you are taken from behind? Have you ever come on a small to average from behind?
     
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    You really shouldn't feel inadequate! You know what I find really important in your story? You make her feel comfortable with her sexuality, it seems. This is something to be really proud of.
     
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