Hi All, Introduction First thank you to all of you have responded to my previous question. I am revising this question regarding a cuckold situation because I want to see if I get more replies because it is not in the general section. So, I am going to summarize my previous post, include a minor update, and re-ask the question in order to get the need opinions. Finally I am not looking replies regarding risks due to the fact we have had previous experiences with this and understand them. Instead the type of opinions that are being sought includes insight, direction from those who may have been in a similar situation, and other helpful insight. Summary My wife and I have been married almost 20 years. Prior to us meeting, she did a one-off fmf with a friend of hers and her boyfriend. However she has never expressed in any interest in having another two woman threesome and tells me the idea of being with another woman is a complete turn-off for her. Nonetheless, during our marriage time we have had a few cuckold experiences and mfm threesomes. All of the threesomes and cuckold experiences have been done as an one-off situation and were done several years ago. Plus they have not had any adverse impact on our relationship. Our last experience was a two male threesome and after it, I think, it met our need to experiment with exploration. After our last experience we settled in married life which has included going several changes which has included moving and career changes. However it was a few years ago that I thought I would "test the water" about having another threesome, cuckold experience, and with our move we are less than a half hour from a swingers club which I also suggested. The initial "testing" of the water created allot of "mixed messages." The mixed-message would include showing some interest in the idea, taking some preliminary steps to plan and then she would pull-back. This went on for a while and I began resigning myself to the fact that the last experience was it. Now, in the last six months she has began to show some thawing towards the idea. By this I mean for example the stark contrast with talking about the idea and then pulling back has ended. She has started to take more of the lead on the topic. Examples includes she is talking about guys, primarily celebrities she finds "hot" and would not mind sleeping with. Another example includes when she stays up late on the weekend watching television I will say something like, "you came to bed late," to which she sometimes will reply, "I was out late with my boyfriend." Final example she will ask me to text her cuckold or threesome descriptions to which we have a bit of fantasy play with. Minor update Recently she has started verbally teasing me that wants "to do" someone at work (though she does not mention anyone specific) and she likes bringing up the subject because according to her she likes to tease me. I know some may think that she has someone in mind. However her behavior does not indicate that to me and I think it is the idea that is interesting to her. Questions From the last question it appears there was a consensus that she was warming up to the idea. For me the challenge that I expect that I will face will be resistance. The resistance comes from her having a modern view of relationships, knowing a few people that have had "open relationships" that went bad, believing that "good girls" just do not have threesomes / cuckold even though she has, and worrying because her job involves contact with the public that she will be found out. For me one question that I have is how to do I continue to encourage this and begin taking small steps towards having either another threesome or cuckold experience while helping her to overcome her resistance? Final question that I have, I believe on an intellectual level she is comfortable with the idea but is there a way to assist her with getting comfort, once again, with it on an emotional level?