Wife Slut Fantasies

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  1. Tonystarkxxx

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    Maybe it's strange, maybe not.. But I both have fantasies of my wife being slutty, and am made sick to my stomach by the thought of her actually cheating on me.
    We've been together a long time, and in the last few years I've thought more about what it would be like for her, or maybe even to see her, give another guy head. She's always been quite good at giving me blowjobs, and the idea of seeing just how much she could pleasure someone else is hot. Those thoughts then naturally lead to even more.
    That being said, the idea that she did this on her own, behind my back, would be devastating. If it's an emotional thing I'd be crushed. Somehow the idea of it with my knowledge or maybe even watching, purely for sexual satisfaction, seems hot and sexy.
    Am I being a hypocrite? I'm sure most will say no, but I wanted to say this "out loud" for the first time ever.

    Ps: the actual "cuckold" thing also doesn't really seem to appeal to me.
     
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    I could have also added my desire to see her with other women, but that almost seemed like a cliche given. Lol
     
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    I want my bf to see me with another women :)
     
  4. Tonystarkxxx

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    Have you been with women before? She never has. She loves girl on girl porn, has always read my playboys, and finds women sexually attractive. I think the girl would have to be super hot, and some big amounts of liquid courage to be in her system for her to try it.
     
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    yes :)
     
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    do you consider yourself bi? Mmm is love to see her reaction as she gave in and let a beautiful woman slowly work her way down on her...
     
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    yes a little but it will always be cock for me :)
     
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    That's aweosme. Love a girl that could never give up cock, but likes some pussy from time to time. Lol I imagine her being timid as she slowly and shyly started to taste another woman.
     
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    Fine! I'll do it.
     
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    make wifey next!!
     
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    I have the same thoughts and fantasies. I would never want my wife to have an emotional attachment, or do it behind my back, but to watch the physical side does turn me on.
     
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    part of me wants her to be very cautious and almost reluctant.. Until she's so worked up she has to go all out sucking him.
     
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    Have you ever talked to her about it? If not, be careful as the first conversation won't go over well. In time, we have learned to use it in fantasy as part of our play. It is really hot! Good luck.
     
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    as yet I haven't had to balls to try to mention it. We have what I consider to be a pretty "traditional" relationship.
    We have attended a few events at a local lifestyle club. It's private, and hard to explain how even that doesn't mean we'd be "into" swinging or anything. I think if it, or anything else like it, does happen.. It will be through trips there though.
     
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    I will sell everything I have to watch.
     
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    Teamster, snap a couple of pictures or take a video and I'll chip in a few bucks! :p
     
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    Getting VERY voyoristic in here lol
     
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    I suggest being completely honest with her and tell her exactly what you want, but if she is not interested, just respect that and give her your own cock to play with:);)
     
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    the last time we went to the lifestyle club, we took a female friend with us. Had a great time, although no sex was actually had by any of us.
    She was getting more comfortable though. Asking me what I thought about her dressing more provocativly if we went back again. Something she would never wear out to a normal bar or club. I told her I thought it was a great idea!
     
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    Your fantasy is fine.. Sluttyfairy and i have lived that one.. I have set up situations for her to "play" with other guys. ( oral only, and they had to be more endowed than myself)..,, We have an extremely open line of communication between us..when she confesssd she has an oral fixation for hung men, I said " lets do it!"
    the biggest hurdle was for her to know that she wasn't going to hurt me by doing this.. Took a while to convince her that I found it erotic..
    I think if you genuinely trust each other, then u can live this fantasy.. But if you have any doubts, then it may not be for you..