Wife masturbating

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  1. curioustw

    curioustw New Member

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    This question is for my male cohorts.

    If you walked in on your wife/girlfriend using her favorite toy, how would you feel and what would you do? I am curious to hear what other men think about this.

    Personally, it would be a HUGE TURN-ON for me!

    Your thoughts and opinions are greatly appreciated.
     
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    Um, I'd replace the toy :)
     
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    This did happen to me with my x and I jerked off with her very HOT time!:D
     
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    be cheesey and say "need any help sweetie?
     
  5. igor

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    That would be the day. I'd love to see that. I can only think of one time I knew my wife masturbated.
     
  6. Alwayslearningsex

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    If she is not getting enough from you it's a hint otherwise right on!
    Ask if you get do it for her, with her, or just join in.
     
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    I say, "damn, ya started without me, I told you I'd be in in a sec."
     
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    I would feel like I didn't get in there fast enough. And would jump right in there with her!
     
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    I would enjoy it. Either be quiet and watch or open my big mouth and ask to join. In the back of my mind wonder if my phone is broken bc I didn't have a miss call from her to come and help.
     
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    Turn on. I buy her the toys, and love watching her with them, lol.

    I have walked in on her using them in the past, but with her already knowing I was coming and not really interrupting some "private" moment.
     
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    I'd initially be kind of disappointed over the fact that she chose plastic over the real thing, but you know, sometimes your own hands are just better than the real thing...sometimes.

    I'm pretty sure my wife is generally uncomfortable around other people, even her partner, when it comes to sex. If that's the case, the best thing I could probably do is pretend I didn't notice. I don't know...

    I'm gonna go with "the first thing I'd do is log on to sexualforums and ask you guys for advice!"
     
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    well i can only speak for myself but my head would be between her legs
     
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    i would understand and let her finish her session, as i understand some people need to have self induced pleasure such as masturbating. unlike her, she see's me with my hand on my dick indicating anything close to masturbating and all hell brakes loose!!!
     
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    My SO thinks she will go to Hell if she does it... I on the other hand do it whenever possible
     
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    Happens to us all the time; no big deal.
    Her needs are way higher than mine but if I'm free she will ask me to assist by licking her breasts otherwise she just happily buzzes along.
     
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    queue holy sound effects and golden rays.
     
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    "The vibrator beat me to it?" is what i would say, then get in there and show her why I'm better than the vibrator.:lol
     
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    mmmm i'd like to see that :)
    I would enjoy...
     
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    Watch her play with herself for a bit, then get down and start eating her wet, hot juices.
     
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    I encourage my wife to use her toys more if I am not around, but she says she won't unless I am there.

    She has "started" knowing I was on my way before, but never caught her unexpectedly.....if I did I would just join in :)