Religion can help a marriage flourish. In this case, my wife is listening to conservative Christian teachings, and raising objections to watching erotic videos during foreplay and sex. I find that the visions during foreplay and sex increase my satiatio after sex. As I have gotten older, I experience greater ease in getting and staying erected, and climaxing, with the aid of erotic videos. I tell my wife that that is my viagra. I have seen posts on the web from women who are oposed to porn, and from women who enjoy watching erotic videos with their partner. Since my wife is oppostional, like in ODD, Oppostional Defiant Disorder, I have to figure some sideways approach to discuss this with her. The key to ODD is to discuss things in terms of plans for the future. Like, "Since you will go to Hell if you watch erotic videos with me, we had better get divorced now, so you can go to Heaven."