Wife dating other women.

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by Reality Guy, Jan 3, 2007.

  1. Reality Guy

    Reality Guy New Member

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    Hi,
    After 25 years of marriage and a
    sagging sex life, i met a woman who talks
    to married women about dating other women.
    Got my wife into it and life is good again.
  2. Logger

    Logger Gold Member

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    How does it work?

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    FitGuyNYC New Member

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    That may make me feel odd, my wife being more sexual with others than myself.
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    If it doesnt ruin your marriage...Im happy for you then.
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    A wife in her forties, married for 25 years, it is not uncommon for sex to be a bit stale between a couple. It doesn't imply that the wife is more sexual with others, maybe with the confidence of 25 years of sex she is willing to live a fantasy she may have had for many years. Certainly many middle-aged women become more sexual in various ways as they gain confidence not only in sex, but in themselves. And the excitement of a new but casual sexual dynamic WILL spill over into her main relationship, I have been in that space myself and I know that a new casual partner can fire up sex with your existing partner, as strange as it may seem.

    It seems we are not really made for monogamy, and if they are both comfortable with what's going on, then good luck.
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    Well put post
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    Interesting dynamics here. While many of your answers and thoughts are different I think that they are all correct...for you...i think only a couple understands the bounds and strengths of their marriage. some envelopes are just larger than others. good luck everyone.