Ok, I need some feedback from you guys and ladies. Married over 15 years and we have had some problems, NONE of which involved me cheating. Everywhere we go, I get accused of 'looking' at other attractive women. In past years, I was a looker and was careful, considerate but never much thought twice about it. Since I have been beaten up about it, I have made every concerted effort possible to keep my eyes off of others. I believe I am now no better or worse about it than any other guy. The problem is she watches me constantly. If I look up from the dinner table in a rest., she turns to see what(who) I am looking at. If anyone walks by, it is assumed I am guilty, evening ruined immediatley, end of story. At most, I am a people watcher, studier of the general public. I notice goofy guys or strange dressed people too, as well as little kids that remind me of our kids when they were younger. Doesn't matter, it's assumed I was scoping out a woman. What do you all think of this? I have NEVER cheated(she HAS), so what gives? Do I have to leave her to get a peaceful dinner out again? How can she really care about me when she drags us into this all the time and ruins nights, weekends, etc.? Any thoughts?