For the past several months my husband (14 years) has been jacking off. He has always been able to take or leave sex, never seemed important to him. We have sex maybe once a month and usually it is with us on our sides, with my back to him (this is the position he prefers lately), anyway, lately he has been masturbating EVERY time he is home alone. I suspected this and have my ways (yes, I am sneaky and conniving), but I know FOR SURE this has been going on for several months. I knew he had done this Tuesday evening so I wanted to see if he would still have sex so, I just got all sexy for bed and we started fooling around. I was giving him a blowjob in the position that he loves, (he cums very quickly this way), but he suddenly stopped and said it didnt feel right, his knees hurt, blah blah blah. So he decided to just do the "regular" sex and 2 minutes into that, he gave up and went limp. He did finish me, but what puzzles me is he knows that I will do try anything sexual. I take him all the way with a blow job, we have had anal sex, but lately ZIP. He says he is tired or some excuse, but it doesnt stop him from jacking off every chance he has to be alone. The past several months he has also started making comments about women (not to me, but they have gotten back to me), about being hot and the like. I have asked him about it and caught him in a lie. The thing is - he knows it would be a turnon for me to watch him masturbate, I would masturbate for him, etc... but he just denies making the comments and also about jacking off. I have been angry, tried talking nice, even letting him know that this is bothering me, hurting my self-esteem and all he does is lie and say it isnt happening, but I KNOW FOR A FACT IT IS!!! Any thoughts?