why some 34 yr males arnt married

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  1. Kronnie

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    Some may have been living on the streets for most of their lives (I have)
    been in and out of prisons (I have)
    been tormented by past female lovers (I have)
    been abused by the same lovers (yes)
    Had an unstable life (yes)

    Its not always as clear cut as most people have their lives, its never as simple as someone thinking their not married at 34 , that means they use females.
    Theres always other circumstances as to why.
    This is the most ive ever let on about myself in these or any forums ive been to.
    One person knows all this about me as ive gone into depth wit hthem about my past ( that person is from this forum )
     
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    Well Kronnie

    I think you have done well to reach 34 and not be "tied" to one person....look around you man...how many truly happy married couples do you know?

    Maybe you are the wise one and all those married men out there who are lusting after other women cos their "wives dont understand them" are the ones living a lie and you are being truthful!!!

    At least, your life has been colourful......and if you are prepared to learn why you have lived the way you have...then that is fair.....

    As for the "one person on this forum"......isnt that between you and she/he and nobody else?
     
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    Yes it is......but i see a lot of negative things aid about guys that are single at my age, i just wanted to bare something of myself to show there are more reasons than some may think about guys being in their 30's and not married.
     
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    Jealousy normally Kronnie.....

    Freedom is very precious and lot of people, if they are honest, do not feel free in marriage....

    It is their problem.....not yours man!
     
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    Thanks sexy hun :).....
    I dont mind if people see some of my background or if they judge me from it...
    I think i have survived well....gotten past a lot in my life, but still have much more to win against.

    But thanks for your support hun means a lot as your such a sweet lady yourself
     
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    I would always speak out if i thought someone was being spoken to unkindly

    Its just something I always do.....my dad taught me it.....he was a very good and strong role model for me...

    no prob man!
     
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    Kronnie. I see nothing wrong with not being married at your age. Society places pressure on people to get married and usually pushes them into making the wrong choice. Which is a disaster for all concerned. Take your time and find the girl who makes you smile.

    I know many men in their late thrities and early forties who are not married and no one judges them.
     
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    Right on loveit!!!

    I know plenty of married men in their 30s and 40s who spend a great deal of time eyeing up other blokes women and wishing they were single.....

    lol
     
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    Seeing it from that perspective it doesnt sound so bad now :p...

    Thanks bundles Sexy & loveit :)
     
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    Kronnie

    Why do you think there are so many jokes with negative connotations about marriage....

    I have done it THREE times (for my sins)......I should know.....:)

    Freedom is something to treasure man, truly it is....

    E N J O Y !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    Ditto, I plan to be single for a good long time, make shitloads of money, retire from that job and find a small school somewhere to teach history and then timker with cars in my free time. Does anyone see plans for a relationship in there? Nope. People seem to think that you have to be in a relationship to be happy. I whole heartedly disagree.
     
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    Thanks i just didnt like the jibe about you have to be sad to be 34 an not married......]
    Thats the main reason i put this post up...i dint go into specific details justt he outlines...

    Thanks to all three of you :)
     
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    Dude, just remember, whatever anyone else says, fuck 'em. They aren't living your life.
     
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    Ya i know that A1 ....its just i get sick of people constantly stereotyping people , they seem to have to have everyone in a little box so they can try to feel better and look down...

    Thanks you do speak a lot of truth with a good amount of wisdom...

    Maybe i was wrong about you before lol
     
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    Wrong about me? I doubt it, I'm an arrogant jackass. Something I'm fully willing to admit.

    Oh and I stereotype the hell out of people, stereotypes exist for a reason: They tend to be accurate. :shrug It may not be morally right in some people's minds, but we all do it, we can't help but do it.
     
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    Your forgiven for being such a jackass then lol


    Ya we all do it ( but do we, or is that in its self stereotyping to lmao )