Why my girlfriend don't have orgasm?

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  1. radoslaw

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    Dunno....at least explain the situation as you see it.
    Can she cum masturbating?
    If so your technique might be the problem or stage fright or whatever.
    Do you do foreplay and just drive in and out like a sledge hammer!
     
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    What have you tried till now? What has she tried?

    Has she ever had an orgasm?
     
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    Could write a book on the subject. Need much more info. Could be health, technique, relationship, psychological, or any number of other things.
     
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    Its more likely a mental thing than physical thing.
     
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    Lack of focus?
     
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    Maybe she is just one of those ladies that are hard to make cum? #MrsDSG is like getting blood out of a stone - she's great at making herself do it.

    Miss polish is relatively easy.

    #MrDSG
     
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    We are trying different positions. She like dogy style, but still she don't have orgasm when we do it together. She only have orgasm when she watch porn like this with girls http://porntvhd.com/porn_hd_andie-valentino_f0c70804d.html and masturabting. I hate when she do it! Maybe she is lesbian? She is 28 years old and healthy girl.
     
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    Maybe you are over thinking and over analysing things? Maybe you need to enjoy life, enjoy her and listen to the birds singing more.

    Have fun, relax and go with the flow - if not quite the flow of the cum!!!
     
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    Maybe I must find new girlfriend, I'm affraid she is lesbian :(.
     
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    You said she orgasms while masturbating and all you have mentioned trying with her is different sexual positions. It is very common for females to not be able to achieve orgasm from just penetration. You need to use your fingers and your mouth and see if you can bring her to orgasm.
     
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    If she is lesbian then as a male you perhaps need to find a new lady. But a tip have you communicated your concerns to her and asked her? Perhaps she could help you achieve your dreams? Or does she have a better looking single friend?
     
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    Some women just can't orgasm, I think I read that 10% can not.
    But we don't know much about your situation.
    Can she cum manually? Is it that she just can't cum during intercourse?
     
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    If she's a lesbian why does she have a boyfriend?
     
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    Maybe for pretence or appearances? I have a wife for that very reason - in the social circles it is what is acceptable ;)
     
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    I'm think she afraid her parents and friends. So I am just a cover and on the side she has a girlfriend I guess.She is
    cold and unfeeling for me is.
     
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    It's not unusual a third of all women can't reach orgasm while having intercourse.
    Have you tried using toys and watching porn while you are together?
    How doesn't she make herself cum? does she need clit stimulation?
     
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    That is understandable. Some people cannot embrace the non straight sexuality. More fools them. If you are a cover then use it wisely and to your advantage. Get what you can out of her - emotionally, materially and financially.
     
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    When she masturabating she has orgasm, when we have sex together she don't have an orgasm,
     
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    How long have you been together?