Why is it...

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by scorpio_nymph, Jul 14, 2007.

  1. scorpio_nymph

    scorpio_nymph New Member

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    why is it that you can't kiss someone without it meaning you want to fuck them, but you can fuck them without wanting to kiss them?
     
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    MMmmmm. I can kiss without wanting to fuck them and fucking them without kissing them is a bit dull isn't it?
     
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    That must just be a You thing as the rest of us
    are not like that.
    Kissing has many meanings.
    The major one is just to show your partner that you care.
    I do it all the time.

    Hiker
     
  4. Kronnie

    Kronnie Banned

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    I know that some guys see any advance from a female as a come on.

    Saying heelo to them means your offering yourself mind body and soul.

    But to more grown up males this wouldnt be the case ( they would be flattered that you said hello to them...


    a kiss is meant to be the greatest sign of affection . :)
     
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    Big_Byrd New Member

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    girls are dif then guys
     
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    jaguar New Member

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    I understand what you are saying and know exactly what you mean. I think it really all depends on your maturity level. I am a very touchy huggie kissing person and the people I hug, kiss has mostly the same meaning "closeness". Yes I kiss my wife everyday but we don't have sex everyday. I hug and kiss my friends and co-workers all the time. Everytime I see our two secretaries, maybe once a week we kiss and hug, we are close to each other. One co-worker we both hug often. She tells me I am one of the closest people to her, yea she will not give that little friendship smooch. She is young and immature and really does not get it. When you get to a point in your life where friends are treasured you tend to show more affection.
     
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    Kronnie Banned

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    Also the eyes are meant to be the route to your soul.
    so would a kiss then , be the quickest way to someones heart :)
     
  8. Malfie

    Malfie New Member

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    Theres 2 types of relationships (excluding the less numerous cases in the middle) I always say. The relationships where fucking is most important, and the relationships where expierenceing eachother (not necessiarly sexualy though) is most important. Frankly, a kiss can be romantic with emotion and feeling behind it, or it can be purly sexual. The way a kiss feels is all about the emotion behind it. If the two feel more for eachother than purly sexual feelings, they should have the ability to deliever a kiss with emotion, which will feel different than one that says you want to fuck them. I spent a year and a half kissing a girl, but we both agreed we didnt want to fuck yet (this was a bit ago lol), but each and every kiss had feeling behind it.

    Youll know a "love" kiss when you give one.
     
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    clamUp Active Member

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    Reminds me of the old joke about when one porn star asked his female co-star out to dinner.

    She replied, "Do you really think I go out to dinner with every guy I go to bed with?!"
     
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    Very well said!