[Ask a Girl] Why is it so difficult to find a woman to use a strapon?

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  1. Tuna227

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    Hey girls how r u my question is Y is it so difficult to find a woman interested in using a strapon? I mean women talk about doing it on here but in real life it's like impossible. I've tried asking women in bars I've tried phone chat lines and I've tried Internet personals. Icant find anybody serious about doing it or actually meeting. Can u give me any advice on what to do or where to go. Is anybody on here interested. Women thst have done it can u tell me wut to expectif it ever happens how it's gonna feel the best position will it be shoved down my throat. Any advice and people interested will be greatly appreciated
     
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    you mean on you? Craigslist..
     
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    I've tried craigslist the posts are either spam or if it is a real person they don't wanna meet or they are hookers who want money to do it.
     
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    Change "use a strap-on" to "suck my dick" and you'll see what the problem is. For example, "I've tried asking women in bars to suck my dick." Would you really expect that to work? The difficulty isn't in finding a woman who is willing to use a strap-on. The difficulty is in believing that we women can be approached that way for anything.
     
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    ^ couldnt be more true
     
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    Meee, I adore you. :bow
     
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    How come I cant see what Meee is posting?
     
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    :eek: Thanks. It's soooo mutual.:rose
     
  9. 6stringking

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    Dude, one if your with a SO your more likely to get what you want by communicating, and two, one night stands are usually well... the usual. No one really does a lot of freaky or out of the norm stuff on one night stands.
     
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    I didn't mean it like that when I said I've asked woman in bars i would never just walk up to a girl and say "hey u wanna fuck me in the ass" cuz your right that wouldn't work and I would expect a slap or kick in the balls. What I meant was I was talking with a woman and I nonchalantly brought it up somehow like sayin "I was usin my friends computer and looked in her saved files and she had porn of a girl using a strapon on a guy lol would u ever do that" and every one has always said no that's gay or something like that
     
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    Its not your typical thing to admit too.
     
  12. Barbwire

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    Makes perfect sense to me.
     
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    My SO & I do this. It is not something that you just decide to do one night. There is a lot of trust that needs to be built before hand. Its out of the norm and most people don't leave their comfort zone with someone they don't fully trust.

    Step 1: Meet someone who you can develope a relationship with that has a kinky side.
    Step 2: Build trust
    Step 3: "Will you strap this on and fuck my ass with it? It has a clitoral vibrator for you..please" :p
     
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    I keep hearing women complain about how hard it is finding guy willing to do it and guys complaining about how hard it is to find a woman willing to do it. I guess both parties just aren't finding one another.
     
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    While I'm not gay or really too interested in being fucked anally, this part her ticks me off for some reason. :/ Homosexuality is a sexual attraction to someone of the same sex, nothing more and nothing less. Yeah, I know, didn't need to bring that up but calling that gay is just annoying to me. lol
     
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    Would u do it or have u done it?
     
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    It's cause you're picking up women in bars to do that. It'll probably work better if your'e a commited relationship full of trust
     
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    seems like that's always the case doesn't it?

    every time i meet a girl into the same freaky shit as i am online she ends up living in california or something, while i'm in new york.

    the sad irony is, there's probably some girl living 2 blocks away talking to some dude in california, wishing he was closer, ha ha!!
     
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    amen to that.

    it's not like gays have the monopoly on anal sex/butt play. gay men have anal sex out of necessity, because there's no vaginas available.

    fucking a woman in the ass doesn't make you gay does it? well, then, neither does having a woman fuck you in in the ass!

    you know what makes you gay? having sex with other men!

    ( not that there's anything wrong with that. )
     
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    I thought having a preference for same-sex partners made you gay lol