Why is everyone obsessed with anal sex?????

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  1. clubber_stevens

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    What is it about anal sex that everyone can't stfu about? I don't mean specifically here but just everywhere online in sex related websites its all just ANAL this or ANAL that. I tried it once with a girl and it really is overrated and frankly disgusting. It didn't feel natural to me. I just don't get why everyone seems so obsessed with it. Anyone care to shed some light? I know everyone is into different things but this just seems overrated to me.
     
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    I have had anal sex a few times and I find vaginal sex feels better on my penis. I don't mind anal as something different, and with preparation it can be as clean as you like. I have known a few women who were orgasmic with anal sex but not with vaginal sex, so for their benefits I was happy to oblige.
     
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    Its good as a change every now and again, i wouldn't want it over vaginal sex all the time though. I know that my gf likes it every now and again when she's feeling submissive as she gets turned on at the thought of surrendering her ass to me (her words) . At times like that I'm more than happy to go with the flow :)
     
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    I have to agree. Way too much. I'm bi, but mainly oral. I am cursed with a 6" fairly thin, upward curved dick that always gets the same response from guys. "ooo, can you fuck me?" Now I just say I don't do that. Cuz I don't anymore. A couple horrible experiences by inconsiderate assholes and that's the end.
    The wife loves it as well. I'll do her butt by request only. Such a nice pussy, right there. Hate to see it go to waste.
     
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    Given the choice for me it is a no brainer; pussy rules!
     
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    I think it has to do with porn. It's become so prevalent in porn that people want to emulate it in their sex lives. What most don't realize is the preparation that goes into anal sex scenes on film. Enemas and fasting are common and necessary to ensure a clean scene. If you go to WoodRocket.com, they do interviews with porn stars and they talk about various subjects. Some surround around anal sex where they tell horror stories about on set mishaps. And that is even after all the prep.

    Bottom line. People wants try new things. They need to push to boundaries to keep sex from getting repetitive and boring.
     
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    I have seen a lot of poorly edited porn where there was way too much santorum flowing out. Nothing sexy about that (to me anyway).
     
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    I guess it is popular because people always looking for something new. So after doing pussy for a while whats next? and the only answer comes to mind is anal.
     
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    It seems to really depend on your partner. I have only been with one woman that was like absolutely fuck me in the ass loved it.

    Some like anal stimulation, others are like don't even touch me there.
     
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    been there...done that...got the t-shirt (both of us have), really didn't get either one of us ging and in teten years we've been together we've never gone there. discussed it early on and it was a nonstarter!
     
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    I love anal. For me it has nothing to do with porn. I've always been an ass man, always preferred a nice ass over breasts.

    It's obviously tighter, I love the view, and the mental aspect that a woman will let me do it is just as much of a turn on as the physical.
    When I'm with a woman who loves it makes it even better.
     
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    I guess its one of those things, like it or don't like it. My wife enjoys anal every so often. It is always at her request, maybe a few times I have initiated but for the majority its her request. I'm ok with it.
     
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    Because it's awesome, that's why! :p
     
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    Because it feels good. :)
     
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    me too.
     
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    I wondered where all of our females are with their opinions :)

    I'm not sure I can explain why I like it so much, it gives me orgasms, how's that? :) E would agree with you guys, pussy or ass, he'll prefer the pussy. But he's good to me and pounds me in the ass like a champ when I ask for it. ;)
     
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    not everyone is,
    I've never done it and never cared to try it.
    and in no way I'm saying anything is wrong with it,it's just that it's not for me
     
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    ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I'm not

    Never had any interest in trying it and probably never will.
     
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