Why girls are so cold ?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Logger, Dec 7, 2004.

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  1. Logger

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    Dear Stepsahe,

    Women often start out cold, but I work toward getting my wife hot.

    Women take longer to warm up, a man can get hot realtively quickly. Steps in getting a woman hot can build up over a day or more.

    The thing that I find helpful to warm a woman up is to ask her questions. Find ways to get a woman talking about her interests. You mention a lack of conversation, but I suspect that you have not taken 3 hours to sit on the phone researching what courses or counseling sessions are available, to help you improve asking questions that could get a woman talking about her interests, and how you can create a trusting atmosphere, so a woman would feel comfortable talking to you about her interests.

    I have books of hundreds of counseling questions that I review if I feel my conversational skills need sprucing up. Questions for conversation is not really taught in College. Some people are more natural at easy conversation. Personally, I have had to work on my conversational skills. I have a natural tendency to try to argue with people, which makes it unsafe for discussing personal interests. I need to put myself in check, quite often, to avoid appearing argumentative.

    Conversation is usually necessary before Foreplay.

    Welcome to SF.

    Blessings
     
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